"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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How do you know when your Alpha?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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blienk

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When you're banging hot chicks with no effort and other guys respect you.

If you have to ask, then you're not alpha.
 

coldcoal

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I think it's when everyone is afraid to admit they hate you.
 

Slickster

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"How do you know when you are Alpha?"

When you don't have to ask.

Not an insult but its true. An Alpha doesn't give a shyt about whether he's Alpha. He just knows it and doesn't give a fukk about what anyone else thinks.
 

coldcoal

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What about those little guys with BIG attitudes? They never ask.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheRisingSon

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Yep

ColdCoal has it best. You can tell when everyone feels a bit nervous around you, but they are still all smiles.

Being Alpha is overblown, btw. It's not needed. For anything.

I Have Risen
 

00Kevin

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I think that every man goes through times when he is the alpha and times when he isn't. Very few of us are the Alpha in every context.

Any guy that is a bit cool and hanges out with losers will be the Alpha. Does that make that guy a real man. NO it does not.

For example, the average guy could be the alpha if he went out with a bunch of fat girls.

So I would not concern yourself with being the Alpha. The reality is however, that you have to find it in yourself to compete with other guys if you want to attract hot women. Use your competitive nature to become stronger, but what ever you do don't compete with women - that doesn't mean anything

Women naturally go for the guy who appears to be the strongest and who appears to be in control.

For example, take a musician. For the most part these guys are just average looking and are not the strong jock types; however, give one of those guys a guitar and a stage and he will be the Alpha that night. He will be the center of attention at that night and the women will love him for it. :)

The point I want to make is to focus on those skills that you have that set you appart from other guys. Those are your strengths. You must learn when to use them and when not to. Just make damn sure however that your women see your strength.

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anyway, I just finished my thrid pint of Guiness and I'm going to bed.
 

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When you don't post questions like this - and you don't give a fvck who's alpha. Fvck - you don't even know the term "alpha male" exists....

Your not influenced and you don't give a sh#t.
 
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DDKevin got it right, eventhough he is a drunkard.:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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