WatchMeWalk
Senior Don Juan
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"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
How do you know when your Alpha?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"How do you know when you are Alpha?"
When you don't have to ask.
Not an insult but its true. An Alpha doesn't give a shyt about whether he's Alpha. He just knows it and doesn't give a fukk about what anyone else thinks.
When you don't have to ask.
Not an insult but its true. An Alpha doesn't give a shyt about whether he's Alpha. He just knows it and doesn't give a fukk about what anyone else thinks.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TheRisingSon
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Yep
ColdCoal has it best. You can tell when everyone feels a bit nervous around you, but they are still all smiles.
Being Alpha is overblown, btw. It's not needed. For anything.
I Have Risen
ColdCoal has it best. You can tell when everyone feels a bit nervous around you, but they are still all smiles.
Being Alpha is overblown, btw. It's not needed. For anything.
I Have Risen
I think that every man goes through times when he is the alpha and times when he isn't. Very few of us are the Alpha in every context.
Any guy that is a bit cool and hanges out with losers will be the Alpha. Does that make that guy a real man. NO it does not.
For example, the average guy could be the alpha if he went out with a bunch of fat girls.
So I would not concern yourself with being the Alpha. The reality is however, that you have to find it in yourself to compete with other guys if you want to attract hot women. Use your competitive nature to become stronger, but what ever you do don't compete with women - that doesn't mean anything
Women naturally go for the guy who appears to be the strongest and who appears to be in control.
For example, take a musician. For the most part these guys are just average looking and are not the strong jock types; however, give one of those guys a guitar and a stage and he will be the Alpha that night. He will be the center of attention at that night and the women will love him for it.
The point I want to make is to focus on those skills that you have that set you appart from other guys. Those are your strengths. You must learn when to use them and when not to. Just make damn sure however that your women see your strength.
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anyway, I just finished my thrid pint of Guiness and I'm going to bed.
Any guy that is a bit cool and hanges out with losers will be the Alpha. Does that make that guy a real man. NO it does not.
For example, the average guy could be the alpha if he went out with a bunch of fat girls.
So I would not concern yourself with being the Alpha. The reality is however, that you have to find it in yourself to compete with other guys if you want to attract hot women. Use your competitive nature to become stronger, but what ever you do don't compete with women - that doesn't mean anything
Women naturally go for the guy who appears to be the strongest and who appears to be in control.
For example, take a musician. For the most part these guys are just average looking and are not the strong jock types; however, give one of those guys a guitar and a stage and he will be the Alpha that night. He will be the center of attention at that night and the women will love him for it.
The point I want to make is to focus on those skills that you have that set you appart from other guys. Those are your strengths. You must learn when to use them and when not to. Just make damn sure however that your women see your strength.
....
anyway, I just finished my thrid pint of Guiness and I'm going to bed.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Alpha is the guy who people look at and are kinda afraid to approach. They see you as a successful motherfvcker and want to hate you...but after a few seconds they realize they just can't hate you. And alpha is...
me.
me.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
When you don't post questions like this - and you don't give a fvck who's alpha. Fvck - you don't even know the term "alpha male" exists....
Your not influenced and you don't give a sh#t.
Your not influenced and you don't give a sh#t.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
DDKevin got it right, eventhough he is a drunkard.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.