WatchMeWalk
Senior Don Juan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do you know when your Alpha?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"How do you know when you are Alpha?"
When you don't have to ask.
Not an insult but its true. An Alpha doesn't give a shyt about whether he's Alpha. He just knows it and doesn't give a fukk about what anyone else thinks.
When you don't have to ask.
Not an insult but its true. An Alpha doesn't give a shyt about whether he's Alpha. He just knows it and doesn't give a fukk about what anyone else thinks.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TheRisingSon
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Yep
ColdCoal has it best. You can tell when everyone feels a bit nervous around you, but they are still all smiles.
Being Alpha is overblown, btw. It's not needed. For anything.
I Have Risen
ColdCoal has it best. You can tell when everyone feels a bit nervous around you, but they are still all smiles.
Being Alpha is overblown, btw. It's not needed. For anything.
I Have Risen
I think that every man goes through times when he is the alpha and times when he isn't. Very few of us are the Alpha in every context.
Any guy that is a bit cool and hanges out with losers will be the Alpha. Does that make that guy a real man. NO it does not.
For example, the average guy could be the alpha if he went out with a bunch of fat girls.
So I would not concern yourself with being the Alpha. The reality is however, that you have to find it in yourself to compete with other guys if you want to attract hot women. Use your competitive nature to become stronger, but what ever you do don't compete with women - that doesn't mean anything
Women naturally go for the guy who appears to be the strongest and who appears to be in control.
For example, take a musician. For the most part these guys are just average looking and are not the strong jock types; however, give one of those guys a guitar and a stage and he will be the Alpha that night. He will be the center of attention at that night and the women will love him for it.
The point I want to make is to focus on those skills that you have that set you appart from other guys. Those are your strengths. You must learn when to use them and when not to. Just make damn sure however that your women see your strength.
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anyway, I just finished my thrid pint of Guiness and I'm going to bed.
Any guy that is a bit cool and hanges out with losers will be the Alpha. Does that make that guy a real man. NO it does not.
For example, the average guy could be the alpha if he went out with a bunch of fat girls.
So I would not concern yourself with being the Alpha. The reality is however, that you have to find it in yourself to compete with other guys if you want to attract hot women. Use your competitive nature to become stronger, but what ever you do don't compete with women - that doesn't mean anything
Women naturally go for the guy who appears to be the strongest and who appears to be in control.
For example, take a musician. For the most part these guys are just average looking and are not the strong jock types; however, give one of those guys a guitar and a stage and he will be the Alpha that night. He will be the center of attention at that night and the women will love him for it.
The point I want to make is to focus on those skills that you have that set you appart from other guys. Those are your strengths. You must learn when to use them and when not to. Just make damn sure however that your women see your strength.
....
anyway, I just finished my thrid pint of Guiness and I'm going to bed.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Alpha is the guy who people look at and are kinda afraid to approach. They see you as a successful motherfvcker and want to hate you...but after a few seconds they realize they just can't hate you. And alpha is...
me.
me.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
When you don't post questions like this - and you don't give a fvck who's alpha. Fvck - you don't even know the term "alpha male" exists....
Your not influenced and you don't give a sh#t.
Your not influenced and you don't give a sh#t.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
DDKevin got it right, eventhough he is a drunkard.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.