Epicwinguy
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This way you don't have to hide anything? But this question especially goes if she is religious.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How do you get your wife to agree to let you see escorts?
- Thread starter Epicwinguy
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dustmuffin
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That will go over like a fart in a space suit.
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You've a got wife now? or is this a hypothetical.
I bet
Epicwinguy
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Hypothetical
Stanley
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I guess if you are super high value with lots of money and status she might let it slide? But I doubt it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BackInTheGame78
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You Get divorced
Yes, that proposal to her while still married is a good way for her to screw him financially and file against him first when she gets infidelity proof…
Slippery slope there
EyeBRollin
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The misguided assumption here is that women are worthy and capable of having “agreements” with. Women are not men. They do not look at “honor” the same way we do. So I’m not sure why the question is even about making some pact with a wife about banging an escort. Is this about permission?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Macadellic
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Look for girls that are super messed up
- daddy issues
- bipolar
- polyamorous
- cam girl/onlyfans
I wouldn’t suggest marry her.
Good luck player
- daddy issues
- bipolar
- polyamorous
- cam girl/onlyfans
I wouldn’t suggest marry her.
Good luck player
devilkingx2
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You'd either need to screen for a girl who supports open relationships, polyamory, sex work, etc.
Or you'd need to be so far above her in value like a male 9/10 dating a female 6/10 that you can get her to agree to almost anything.
Or you'd need to be so far above her in value like a male 9/10 dating a female 6/10 that you can get her to agree to almost anything.
Gedmun
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Ask you wife to choose the escort.
bat soup
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Tell her that if she agrees to that you'll let her out of her cage.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Throughout history I think you'd find a lot of men don't either.
RickTheToad
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Can this be nominated for the stupidest question of the year?
Pierce Manhammer
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Weird question. You’ve been here long enough to know the answer to this one.
Furthermore why worry about it?
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Furthermore why worry about it?
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Epicwinguy
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All marriages are dead bedroom situations
taiyuu_otoko
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Try asking your future wife on your first date.
"So, let me ask you a question. I think we're compatible and I think we may go all the way. But because all marriages end up sexless, I'm going to need to see an escort say, once a week. You'd be OK with that, right?"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.