How do you get your wife to agree to let you see escorts?

[taiyuu_otoko]

All marriages are dead bedroom situations

Try asking your future wife on your first date.

"So, let me ask you a question. I think we're compatible and I think we may go all the way. But because all marriages end up sexless, I'm going to need to see an escort say, once a week. You'd be OK with that, right?"

 

[Hamurabimbi]

This way you don't have to hide anything? But this question especially goes if she is religious.

 

[Howiestern]

I've got a friend who had a wife and girlfriend. They all were aware and ok with it. Went on for 10yrs until the girlfriend pushed for marriage. That would probably be your best deal.

 

[Bokanovsky]

This way you don't have to hide anything? But this question especially goes if she is religious.

Tell her that you are compelled by a higher power.

 

[corrector]

All marriages are dead bedroom situations

Then why would you get married in the first place if you have such a poor view of marriage? Sometimes I just dont get non incels. Its like they cant live a straight normal life, always have to have some bs like that, or have xyz child, child support, or sleep with grandma, or do a 69 with her etc.... It makes that position less enviable.

 

[Epicwinguy]

Then why would you get married in the first place if you have such a poor view of marriage? Sometimes I just dont get non incels. Its like they cant live a straight normal life, always have to have some bs like that, or have xyz child, child support, or sleep with grandma, or do a 69 with her etc.... It makes that position less enviable.

How are you even an incel? I mean you don't really seem like you want to get laid, just married for some reason.

 

[corrector]

How are you even an incel? I mean you don't really seem like you want to get laid, just married for some reason.

Well I am not married now am I?

 

[Fruitbat]

All marriages are dead bedroom situations

genuinely not, after 5 years I am approaching my perfect sechsual experiences every time.

It takes a while but without going into detail my wife is willing to do things I’ve never had with previous….all sorts.

This flies against theory but the better I treat her the better she treats me….if I cook her dinner, give her a nice relaxing bath, a bit of time off for her, you would be surprised when you ask for certain privileges and scenarios how willing some women are go….just saying, our bedroom is hotter than hell currently and it’s because we are secure together that I’m getting all I could ever want, and all I had to do was treat her well and then ask…

the one night stands I had were all fairly vanilla in comparison lol

 

[corrector]

genuinely not, after 5 years I am approaching my perfect sechsual experiences every time.

It takes a while but without going into detail my wife is willing to do things I’ve never had with previous….all sorts.

This flies against theory but the better I treat her the better she treats me….if I cook her dinner, give her a nice relaxing bath, a bit of time off for her, you would be surprised when you ask for certain privileges and scenarios how willing some women are go….just saying, our bedroom is hotter than hell currently and it’s because we are secure together that I’m getting all I could ever want, and all I had to do was treat her well and then ask…

the one night stands I had were all fairly vanilla in comparison lol

To be the devil's advocat here, are you tempted to go with a hot 18 year old escort twice a year and would your wife include that in your priviledges if you treat her right? I saw a doc with this Jewish married couple who had some arrangement like that, I think it was exploring the sex industry in Israel or something like that.

 

[bat soup]

Try asking your future wife on your first date.

"So, let me ask you a question. I think we're compatible and I think we may go all the way. But because all marriages end up sexless, I'm going to need to see an escort say, once a week. You'd be OK with that, right?"

If you're going to ask that, remember to put on your motorcycle helmet first.

 

[Dr.Suave]

This flies against theory but the better I treat her the better she treats me

With most people here being anti-marriage, Its refreshing to read stuff like this. Im glad for you bro.

 

[Ricky]

genuinely not, after 5 years I am approaching my perfect sechsual experiences every time.

It takes a while but without going into detail my wife is willing to do things I’ve never had with previous….all sorts.

This flies against theory but the better I treat her the better she treats me….if I cook her dinner, give her a nice relaxing bath, a bit of time off for her, you would be surprised when you ask for certain privileges and scenarios how willing some women are go….just saying, our bedroom is hotter than hell currently and it’s because we are secure together that I’m getting all I could ever want, and all I had to do was treat her well and then ask…

the one night stands I had were all fairly vanilla in comparison lol

I am happy for you. This kind of describes my pre-marriage prekids situation with my wife.
It is challenging to keep this up once a kid is in the mix.

 

[Fruitbat]

I am happy for you. This kind of describes my pre-marriage prekids situation with my wife.
It is challenging to keep this up once a kid is in the mix.

Ah, it just doesn’t happen as often. We get one full day a week together and we make time for a really good session. Other than that it’s pretty rare, one of us is usually too tired or stressed (it’s usually her tired or me too stressed, I just can’t come back from a full on day and turn off)

having a day to look forward to is working well, and we talk about it and kind of plan out what the theme will be . Quality over quantity. Other than that it’s a quickie on the rare occasions we are home,without child and both in the mood.

 

[MatureDJ]

Ask you wife to choose the escort.

We all know that she will find the nastiest looking piece of blubber she can find.

 

[MatureDJ]

Can this be nominated for the stupidest question of the year?

I'm sure it doesn't top my stupidest question.

 

[Chowdah]

Ah, it just doesn’t happen as often. We get one full day a week together and we make time for a really good session. Other than that it’s pretty rare, one of us is usually too tired or stressed (it’s usually her tired or me too stressed, I just can’t come back from a full on day and turn off)

having a day to look forward to is working well, and we talk about it and kind of plan out what the theme will be . Quality over quantity. Other than that it’s a quickie on the rare occasions we are home,without child and both in the mood.

Looks like you found a woman that understands the importance of pleasing her man. It’s a handshake agreement the more you do for each other, the other rewards you in ways you want.
Perhaps it rare to find that type of women now in the west. How long have you guys been together?

 

[Fruitbat]

Looks like you found a woman that understands the importance of pleasing her man. It’s a handshake agreement the more you do for each other, the other rewards you in ways you want.
Perhaps it rare to find that type of women now in the west. How long have you guys been together?

5 years.

She isn’t perfect. She ain’t from the west though she’s Asian, probably explains it!

 

[Pedrito0906]

5 years.

She isn’t perfect. She ain’t from the west though she’s Asian, probably explains it!

But let me ask you these questions:

Did you ever stop improving yourself?
Did you ever lose yourself and got fat and physically unattractive?
Did you ever stop making money?
Did you ever become a doormat?
Did you ever stop putting her in her place when it was needed?
Did you ever become needy?
Did you ever stop becoming the man and the leader of the house?
Did you ever stop gaming her?
Did you ever were afraid of walking away from her when the situation was not a win for you?
Did you ever allow disrespect?
Did you ever say yes to all her wants?
Did you ever say no to her when you didn't have something to win?
Did you ever put her needs first and yours second?
Did you ever did something to get her approval and not just doing it because you enjoy doing it?

Its very important to clarify, its true there are good and bad women but its true also that because women are a reflection of men.

 

[RickTheToad]

I'm sure it doesn't top my stupidest question.

Most certainly.

 

[corrector]

Passport bro.