Epicwinguy
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This way you don't have to hide anything? But this question especially goes if she is religious.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How do you get your wife to agree to let you see escorts?
- Thread starter Epicwinguy
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
dustmuffin
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That will go over like a fart in a space suit.
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You've a got wife now? or is this a hypothetical.
I bet
Epicwinguy
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Hypothetical
Stanley
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I guess if you are super high value with lots of money and status she might let it slide? But I doubt it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BackInTheGame78
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You Get divorced
Yes, that proposal to her while still married is a good way for her to screw him financially and file against him first when she gets infidelity proof…
Slippery slope there
EyeBRollin
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The misguided assumption here is that women are worthy and capable of having “agreements” with. Women are not men. They do not look at “honor” the same way we do. So I’m not sure why the question is even about making some pact with a wife about banging an escort. Is this about permission?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Macadellic
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Look for girls that are super messed up
- daddy issues
- bipolar
- polyamorous
- cam girl/onlyfans
I wouldn’t suggest marry her.
Good luck player
- daddy issues
- bipolar
- polyamorous
- cam girl/onlyfans
I wouldn’t suggest marry her.
Good luck player
devilkingx2
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You'd either need to screen for a girl who supports open relationships, polyamory, sex work, etc.
Or you'd need to be so far above her in value like a male 9/10 dating a female 6/10 that you can get her to agree to almost anything.
Or you'd need to be so far above her in value like a male 9/10 dating a female 6/10 that you can get her to agree to almost anything.
Gedmun
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Ask you wife to choose the escort.
bat soup
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Tell her that if she agrees to that you'll let her out of her cage.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BackInTheGame78
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Throughout history I think you'd find a lot of men don't either.
RickTheToad
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Can this be nominated for the stupidest question of the year?
Pierce Manhammer
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Weird question. You’ve been here long enough to know the answer to this one.
Furthermore why worry about it?
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Furthermore why worry about it?
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Epicwinguy
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All marriages are dead bedroom situations
taiyuu_otoko
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Try asking your future wife on your first date.
"So, let me ask you a question. I think we're compatible and I think we may go all the way. But because all marriages end up sexless, I'm going to need to see an escort say, once a week. You'd be OK with that, right?"
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.