"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do you feel about black women?

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yep, she has a cache of videos, pics, snaps, etc that she sends out. When a man requests one, she flips thru the directory, chooses one she likes and sends. Oy vey. You have to understand, tons of other guys have been sent these images. So far there is nothing personal about your interaction. She's doing what she knows to do to reel you in. Im wondering what the set up is for. Keep your head on straight and keep us posted.
Ay ma lemme holla atchu for a minute
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I´ve never been attracted to any black women either but I don´t think much about it. It´s like single moms or whales or grannies, I just don´t register them as sexual beings.
Not even the tight bodies drenched in lust? Must be blind.
 

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LOL some of the posts in this thread.

Just go out with this woman and have a good time. Attractive black women like that are very rare, and I'm sure they know it, so what you are meeting up with is probably not something you'll run into all that often.
It's extremely rare for me to find black women attractive but there is one that goes to my gym that I approached, solid 8+ with lightish skin. Massive attention ***** though.
 

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Nope. Those are her real nails. I asked her about them and she showed me. She just has long nails *shrug* no lashes in person. I think she’s just the type to get dolled up once in a while.

Trust me I was vetting this chick.

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See this her without makeup. I’m not ashamed to admit I asked if I could see her hair again this morning and she sent me this a few minutes later.

Please don’t ask her pics of her hair ever again. You are on the road to betaville and you don’t even know it. Of course she is going to send you a pic of her, she is looking for that validation. Did you tell her how pretty she is as well like every other dude. Read the Bible again for Christ sake.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How does he correct it?
More racially diverse social circles, when you watch all kinds growing up from young then you realise we are all the same, just a product of our envirmoment.
 

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How does he correct it?
Stop giving a shyt ... Stop posting soo many damn pictures, stop defending her.

Realize that things are NEVER as they seem with a woman. The more you go AFC, the harder the slap in the face when you realize... 1, She is OCD crazy psycho, 2 She is a Narcissistic Sadistic attention *****, or 3 she has a BF in prison.

OP definitely got the case of "OMG IM SO IN LOVE SHE IS PURRRFECT!" disease.

yeah she might be a decent woman, but realize what that means and get your head out your ass...

Who is the prize?
 

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Stop giving a shyt ... Stop posting soo many damn pictures, stop defending her.

Realize that things are NEVER as they seem with a woman. The more you go AFC, the harder the slap in the face when you realize... 1, She is OCD crazy psycho, 2 She is a Narcissistic Sadistic attention *****, or 3 she has a BF in prison.

OP definitely got the case of "OMG IM SO IN LOVE SHE IS PURRRFECT!" disease.

yeah she might be a decent woman, but realize what that means and get your head out your ass...

Who is the prize?
It would be wize for a broh who even thinks he might be "hung up" or too "drawn in" to her for him to go fvck someone else, like asap.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She's a cutie bro go get that, who cares what these dudes think
She is, we all know that. She knows that. Everyone around her knows that. If he kiss her azz like everyone else, he won't be fvcking. He needs to not bleed off "power" due to her appearance, treat her just like another.
 

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She is, we all know that. She knows that. Everyone around her knows that. If he kiss her azz like everyone else, he won't be fvcking. He needs to not bleed off "power" due to her appearance, treat her just like another.
I think he gets it now
 

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I am into black mature BBWs. They get me hard like a rock. It is 100% a fetish, I concede.

But for reproduction/LTR, I will stick to white women. I am against miscegenation.

Another factor to take into account is that black women are at the bottom of the sexual marketplace. As far as hypergamy theory works, you don't want to pair with someone way below your own SMV. Of course, it depends on the person, an outstanding black chick can be better than a white one. But it is rare.
 

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I am into black mature BBWs. They get me hard like a rock. It is 100% a fetish, I concede.

But for reproduction/LTR, I will stick to white women. I am against miscegenation.

Another factor to take into account is that black women are at the bottom of the sexual marketplace. As far as hypergamy theory works, you don't want to pair with someone way below your own SMV. Of course, it depends on the person, an outstanding black chick can be better than a white one. But it is rare.
If you look at raw lust and raw sexuality im not sure how you score an incredibly fit, perky breast tight body black womem low when its sex only? We all have our opinions.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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