"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you feel about black women?

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yep, she has a cache of videos, pics, snaps, etc that she sends out. When a man requests one, she flips thru the directory, chooses one she likes and sends. Oy vey. You have to understand, tons of other guys have been sent these images. So far there is nothing personal about your interaction. She's doing what she knows to do to reel you in. Im wondering what the set up is for. Keep your head on straight and keep us posted.
Ay ma lemme holla atchu for a minute
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I´ve never been attracted to any black women either but I don´t think much about it. It´s like single moms or whales or grannies, I just don´t register them as sexual beings.
Not even the tight bodies drenched in lust? Must be blind.
 

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LOL some of the posts in this thread.

Just go out with this woman and have a good time. Attractive black women like that are very rare, and I'm sure they know it, so what you are meeting up with is probably not something you'll run into all that often.
It's extremely rare for me to find black women attractive but there is one that goes to my gym that I approached, solid 8+ with lightish skin. Massive attention ***** though.
 

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Nope. Those are her real nails. I asked her about them and she showed me. She just has long nails *shrug* no lashes in person. I think she’s just the type to get dolled up once in a while.

Trust me I was vetting this chick.

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See this her without makeup. I’m not ashamed to admit I asked if I could see her hair again this morning and she sent me this a few minutes later.

Please don’t ask her pics of her hair ever again. You are on the road to betaville and you don’t even know it. Of course she is going to send you a pic of her, she is looking for that validation. Did you tell her how pretty she is as well like every other dude. Read the Bible again for Christ sake.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How does he correct it?
More racially diverse social circles, when you watch all kinds growing up from young then you realise we are all the same, just a product of our envirmoment.
 

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How does he correct it?
Stop giving a shyt ... Stop posting soo many damn pictures, stop defending her.

Realize that things are NEVER as they seem with a woman. The more you go AFC, the harder the slap in the face when you realize... 1, She is OCD crazy psycho, 2 She is a Narcissistic Sadistic attention *****, or 3 she has a BF in prison.

OP definitely got the case of "OMG IM SO IN LOVE SHE IS PURRRFECT!" disease.

yeah she might be a decent woman, but realize what that means and get your head out your ass...

Who is the prize?
 

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Stop giving a shyt ... Stop posting soo many damn pictures, stop defending her.

Realize that things are NEVER as they seem with a woman. The more you go AFC, the harder the slap in the face when you realize... 1, She is OCD crazy psycho, 2 She is a Narcissistic Sadistic attention *****, or 3 she has a BF in prison.

OP definitely got the case of "OMG IM SO IN LOVE SHE IS PURRRFECT!" disease.

yeah she might be a decent woman, but realize what that means and get your head out your ass...

Who is the prize?
It would be wize for a broh who even thinks he might be "hung up" or too "drawn in" to her for him to go fvck someone else, like asap.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She's a cutie bro go get that, who cares what these dudes think
She is, we all know that. She knows that. Everyone around her knows that. If he kiss her azz like everyone else, he won't be fvcking. He needs to not bleed off "power" due to her appearance, treat her just like another.
 

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She is, we all know that. She knows that. Everyone around her knows that. If he kiss her azz like everyone else, he won't be fvcking. He needs to not bleed off "power" due to her appearance, treat her just like another.
I think he gets it now
 

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I am into black mature BBWs. They get me hard like a rock. It is 100% a fetish, I concede.

But for reproduction/LTR, I will stick to white women. I am against miscegenation.

Another factor to take into account is that black women are at the bottom of the sexual marketplace. As far as hypergamy theory works, you don't want to pair with someone way below your own SMV. Of course, it depends on the person, an outstanding black chick can be better than a white one. But it is rare.
 

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I am into black mature BBWs. They get me hard like a rock. It is 100% a fetish, I concede.

But for reproduction/LTR, I will stick to white women. I am against miscegenation.

Another factor to take into account is that black women are at the bottom of the sexual marketplace. As far as hypergamy theory works, you don't want to pair with someone way below your own SMV. Of course, it depends on the person, an outstanding black chick can be better than a white one. But it is rare.
If you look at raw lust and raw sexuality im not sure how you score an incredibly fit, perky breast tight body black womem low when its sex only? We all have our opinions.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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