I approach groups all the time. They’re the most fun and open due to the very fact guys balls shrivel at the sight of more than 2-3 girls.
I don't think I'd work up the courage to open more than 2 girls who were all HB8 or higher without some shots lol.
It’s like guys need you to show them girls aren’t all stuck up bltches in order to inspire them to act.
Pretty much, yeah lol. There's a weird perception that pretty girls are mean, sort of like how blondes and girls with big boobs have a stereotype of being dumb. There isn't much basis in reality, but it exists. I know it's BS but i still catch myself expecting mean girls at times, so i can imagine it's common and powerful
If you’re terrified of groups it’s because you’re still outcome dependent. Nothing needs to happen. Even if there’s a 9 in the group, what good does that do for picking her up if shes not interested or I don’t like what i hear?
See, my way around outcome dependence was to think of an opener that was more important to me than the actual girl was, then it actually became about telling my new favorite joke, refining it to perfection, then telling it til i got bored and started making a new one.
The girl was totally irrelevant to all of that so i didn't really care about getting anything (though sometimes i took it a little too far and got salty at the girls whose uncultured minds couldn't appreciate my genius openers, instead of being understanding that they didn't know any better). Got a lot of numbers that way actually.
However i never saw any benefit to using that methodology on groups, because it would only make it harsher if i struck out with the opening joke (which was actually kinda rare). But once i have the perfected version now that i think about it, testing it on groups would be the next logical step... Hmmm...
You should be approaching groups of girls because......it’s a fvcking group of girls......don’t you like girls????
Alright good point, I'll try it out once i stop drawing blanks on new novelty openers.
Do I have to give you a field report from last year to show you how it’s done ?
Ooh, I'd definitely like to see that