"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you do a freeze out with a woman if she won't have sex without looking butthurt?

Rainman4707

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Just get up & sit on the edge of the bed & be silent.

She will say "whats wrong?"

Get your phone out & go through it or something.

She will know you're not happy.

Then you slowly try building her up again, smelling etc etc
This is all good David De Angelo advice.
When you're smelling if she try's to stop you, ease off...then start again in couple of minutes.

Do you understand? Build slowly, when she try's to stop you, then you move down a couple gears.
Eventually you will have her turned on & SHE will be the one ripping YOUR clothes off!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrgoodstuff

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You don't say anything, you stop talking to her. That's the right thing to say.
 

HeadLightsOn

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I think what OP meant is how you can withdraw yourself from the situation where a girl denies you sex without the guy looking butthurt, not the girl.
This is it, yes.
 

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I was reading another post about how the guys GF respects him a lot more and wants to please him since he cheated on her. Sometimes you have to do this. They just like to know you have options and will use them, and they will do the right thing in a lot of cases.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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