"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do you do a freeze out with a woman if she won't have sex without looking butthurt?

Rainman4707

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Just get up & sit on the edge of the bed & be silent.

She will say "whats wrong?"

Get your phone out & go through it or something.

She will know you're not happy.

Then you slowly try building her up again, smelling etc etc
This is all good David De Angelo advice.
When you're smelling if she try's to stop you, ease off...then start again in couple of minutes.

Do you understand? Build slowly, when she try's to stop you, then you move down a couple gears.
Eventually you will have her turned on & SHE will be the one ripping YOUR clothes off!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mrgoodstuff

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You don't say anything, you stop talking to her. That's the right thing to say.
 

HeadLightsOn

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I think what OP meant is how you can withdraw yourself from the situation where a girl denies you sex without the guy looking butthurt, not the girl.
This is it, yes.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I was reading another post about how the guys GF respects him a lot more and wants to please him since he cheated on her. Sometimes you have to do this. They just like to know you have options and will use them, and they will do the right thing in a lot of cases.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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