"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you do a freeze out with a woman if she won't have sex without looking butthurt?

Rainman4707

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Just get up & sit on the edge of the bed & be silent.

She will say "whats wrong?"

Get your phone out & go through it or something.

She will know you're not happy.

Then you slowly try building her up again, smelling etc etc
This is all good David De Angelo advice.
When you're smelling if she try's to stop you, ease off...then start again in couple of minutes.

Do you understand? Build slowly, when she try's to stop you, then you move down a couple gears.
Eventually you will have her turned on & SHE will be the one ripping YOUR clothes off!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrgoodstuff

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You don't say anything, you stop talking to her. That's the right thing to say.
 

HeadLightsOn

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I think what OP meant is how you can withdraw yourself from the situation where a girl denies you sex without the guy looking butthurt, not the girl.
This is it, yes.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I was reading another post about how the guys GF respects him a lot more and wants to please him since he cheated on her. Sometimes you have to do this. They just like to know you have options and will use them, and they will do the right thing in a lot of cases.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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