"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you do a freeze out with a woman if she won't have sex without looking butthurt?

Rainman4707

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Just get up & sit on the edge of the bed & be silent.

She will say "whats wrong?"

Get your phone out & go through it or something.

She will know you're not happy.

Then you slowly try building her up again, smelling etc etc
This is all good David De Angelo advice.
When you're smelling if she try's to stop you, ease off...then start again in couple of minutes.

Do you understand? Build slowly, when she try's to stop you, then you move down a couple gears.
Eventually you will have her turned on & SHE will be the one ripping YOUR clothes off!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mrgoodstuff

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You don't say anything, you stop talking to her. That's the right thing to say.
 

HeadLightsOn

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I think what OP meant is how you can withdraw yourself from the situation where a girl denies you sex without the guy looking butthurt, not the girl.
This is it, yes.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I was reading another post about how the guys GF respects him a lot more and wants to please him since he cheated on her. Sometimes you have to do this. They just like to know you have options and will use them, and they will do the right thing in a lot of cases.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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