CrazyandLazy
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Good good. I will call her tonight. Hope she joins. She's like a ray of light and cool to have around.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How do you ask a girl to go with you to the movies?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Sir_Turtle
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Repeat these words.
Would you like to see a movie with me?
Would you like to see a movie with me?
go to her and tell her
"so do you wanna see (option A) or (option B)"
and make one movie a popular movie everyone wants to see and the other be one kinda chick flick styled just dont get yourself in too deep. and dude dont bring her flowers dont give her shyt but a few swallows of your drink
"so do you wanna see (option A) or (option B)"
and make one movie a popular movie everyone wants to see and the other be one kinda chick flick styled just dont get yourself in too deep. and dude dont bring her flowers dont give her shyt but a few swallows of your drink
you're giving her two options and neither of them include answering no and also this displays confidence. dude just do it it's really not a big deal like you think it is. whats a big deal is you never knowing if she did or didnt like you. youll get over her saying no easily.
oh man don't fvcking call her a ray of light! she may be but she'll dump your ass sooner than you know. if you wanna tell her that you need to date her for at least 6 months and just tell you she reminded you of your ray of light shining from heaven and blah blah. if you do it too soon even when you're both saying the L word at first, she'll think your predictable guy under her grasp. take my word for it or don't
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
CrazyandLazy
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So I called her yesterday. She didn't flat out say no or quarrel about why she isn't into "that" movie. She said she had to do something with her friends and if she could get her friends to switch the date then she will come with me on Sat. I told her ok and said I'll call her on Friday again. After that we talked about her friend she brought along last Sunday among other things. It was an ok convo.
Even if she doesn't tag along I will go see it. Oh well, that's life.
Even if she doesn't tag along I will go see it. Oh well, that's life.
you don't "ask" a girl to the movies...
that's a "yes" or "no" questions and you should never give her the opportunity to say no.
you: "have you seen xxx"?
her: "no"
you: "do you want to go see it"
her "yeah sure"
you: "Right. Lets go see it then. I can do Monday or Wednesday night, which is best for you?"
that's a "yes" or "no" questions and you should never give her the opportunity to say no.
you: "have you seen xxx"?
her: "no"
you: "do you want to go see it"
her "yeah sure"
you: "Right. Lets go see it then. I can do Monday or Wednesday night, which is best for you?"
Crazy Asian
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you said you just want this girl as a pal?
i call your bullsh1t sir!
i call your bullsh1t sir!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.