CrazyandLazy
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Good good. I will call her tonight. Hope she joins. She's like a ray of light and cool to have around.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do you ask a girl to go with you to the movies?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sir_Turtle
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Repeat these words.
Would you like to see a movie with me?
Would you like to see a movie with me?
go to her and tell her
"so do you wanna see (option A) or (option B)"
and make one movie a popular movie everyone wants to see and the other be one kinda chick flick styled just dont get yourself in too deep. and dude dont bring her flowers dont give her shyt but a few swallows of your drink
"so do you wanna see (option A) or (option B)"
and make one movie a popular movie everyone wants to see and the other be one kinda chick flick styled just dont get yourself in too deep. and dude dont bring her flowers dont give her shyt but a few swallows of your drink
you're giving her two options and neither of them include answering no and also this displays confidence. dude just do it it's really not a big deal like you think it is. whats a big deal is you never knowing if she did or didnt like you. youll get over her saying no easily.
oh man don't fvcking call her a ray of light! she may be but she'll dump your ass sooner than you know. if you wanna tell her that you need to date her for at least 6 months and just tell you she reminded you of your ray of light shining from heaven and blah blah. if you do it too soon even when you're both saying the L word at first, she'll think your predictable guy under her grasp. take my word for it or don't
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
CrazyandLazy
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So I called her yesterday. She didn't flat out say no or quarrel about why she isn't into "that" movie. She said she had to do something with her friends and if she could get her friends to switch the date then she will come with me on Sat. I told her ok and said I'll call her on Friday again. After that we talked about her friend she brought along last Sunday among other things. It was an ok convo.
Even if she doesn't tag along I will go see it. Oh well, that's life.
Even if she doesn't tag along I will go see it. Oh well, that's life.
you don't "ask" a girl to the movies...
that's a "yes" or "no" questions and you should never give her the opportunity to say no.
you: "have you seen xxx"?
her: "no"
you: "do you want to go see it"
her "yeah sure"
you: "Right. Lets go see it then. I can do Monday or Wednesday night, which is best for you?"
that's a "yes" or "no" questions and you should never give her the opportunity to say no.
you: "have you seen xxx"?
her: "no"
you: "do you want to go see it"
her "yeah sure"
you: "Right. Lets go see it then. I can do Monday or Wednesday night, which is best for you?"
Crazy Asian
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you said you just want this girl as a pal?
i call your bullsh1t sir!
i call your bullsh1t sir!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.