CrazyandLazy
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Good good. I will call her tonight. Hope she joins. She's like a ray of light and cool to have around.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How do you ask a girl to go with you to the movies?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sir_Turtle
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Repeat these words.
Would you like to see a movie with me?
Would you like to see a movie with me?
go to her and tell her
"so do you wanna see (option A) or (option B)"
and make one movie a popular movie everyone wants to see and the other be one kinda chick flick styled just dont get yourself in too deep. and dude dont bring her flowers dont give her shyt but a few swallows of your drink
"so do you wanna see (option A) or (option B)"
and make one movie a popular movie everyone wants to see and the other be one kinda chick flick styled just dont get yourself in too deep. and dude dont bring her flowers dont give her shyt but a few swallows of your drink
you're giving her two options and neither of them include answering no and also this displays confidence. dude just do it it's really not a big deal like you think it is. whats a big deal is you never knowing if she did or didnt like you. youll get over her saying no easily.
oh man don't fvcking call her a ray of light! she may be but she'll dump your ass sooner than you know. if you wanna tell her that you need to date her for at least 6 months and just tell you she reminded you of your ray of light shining from heaven and blah blah. if you do it too soon even when you're both saying the L word at first, she'll think your predictable guy under her grasp. take my word for it or don't
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
CrazyandLazy
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So I called her yesterday. She didn't flat out say no or quarrel about why she isn't into "that" movie. She said she had to do something with her friends and if she could get her friends to switch the date then she will come with me on Sat. I told her ok and said I'll call her on Friday again. After that we talked about her friend she brought along last Sunday among other things. It was an ok convo.
Even if she doesn't tag along I will go see it. Oh well, that's life.
Even if she doesn't tag along I will go see it. Oh well, that's life.
you don't "ask" a girl to the movies...
that's a "yes" or "no" questions and you should never give her the opportunity to say no.
you: "have you seen xxx"?
her: "no"
you: "do you want to go see it"
her "yeah sure"
you: "Right. Lets go see it then. I can do Monday or Wednesday night, which is best for you?"
that's a "yes" or "no" questions and you should never give her the opportunity to say no.
you: "have you seen xxx"?
her: "no"
you: "do you want to go see it"
her "yeah sure"
you: "Right. Lets go see it then. I can do Monday or Wednesday night, which is best for you?"
Crazy Asian
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you said you just want this girl as a pal?
i call your bullsh1t sir!
i call your bullsh1t sir!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.