CrazyandLazy
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Good good. I will call her tonight. Hope she joins. She's like a ray of light and cool to have around.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How do you ask a girl to go with you to the movies?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sir_Turtle
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Repeat these words.
Would you like to see a movie with me?
Would you like to see a movie with me?
go to her and tell her
"so do you wanna see (option A) or (option B)"
and make one movie a popular movie everyone wants to see and the other be one kinda chick flick styled just dont get yourself in too deep. and dude dont bring her flowers dont give her shyt but a few swallows of your drink
"so do you wanna see (option A) or (option B)"
and make one movie a popular movie everyone wants to see and the other be one kinda chick flick styled just dont get yourself in too deep. and dude dont bring her flowers dont give her shyt but a few swallows of your drink
you're giving her two options and neither of them include answering no and also this displays confidence. dude just do it it's really not a big deal like you think it is. whats a big deal is you never knowing if she did or didnt like you. youll get over her saying no easily.
oh man don't fvcking call her a ray of light! she may be but she'll dump your ass sooner than you know. if you wanna tell her that you need to date her for at least 6 months and just tell you she reminded you of your ray of light shining from heaven and blah blah. if you do it too soon even when you're both saying the L word at first, she'll think your predictable guy under her grasp. take my word for it or don't
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
CrazyandLazy
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So I called her yesterday. She didn't flat out say no or quarrel about why she isn't into "that" movie. She said she had to do something with her friends and if she could get her friends to switch the date then she will come with me on Sat. I told her ok and said I'll call her on Friday again. After that we talked about her friend she brought along last Sunday among other things. It was an ok convo.
Even if she doesn't tag along I will go see it. Oh well, that's life.
Even if she doesn't tag along I will go see it. Oh well, that's life.
you don't "ask" a girl to the movies...
that's a "yes" or "no" questions and you should never give her the opportunity to say no.
you: "have you seen xxx"?
her: "no"
you: "do you want to go see it"
her "yeah sure"
you: "Right. Lets go see it then. I can do Monday or Wednesday night, which is best for you?"
that's a "yes" or "no" questions and you should never give her the opportunity to say no.
you: "have you seen xxx"?
her: "no"
you: "do you want to go see it"
her "yeah sure"
you: "Right. Lets go see it then. I can do Monday or Wednesday night, which is best for you?"
Crazy Asian
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you said you just want this girl as a pal?
i call your bullsh1t sir!
i call your bullsh1t sir!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.