CrazyandLazy
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Good good. I will call her tonight. Hope she joins. She's like a ray of light and cool to have around.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How do you ask a girl to go with you to the movies?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sir_Turtle
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Repeat these words.
Would you like to see a movie with me?
Would you like to see a movie with me?
go to her and tell her
"so do you wanna see (option A) or (option B)"
and make one movie a popular movie everyone wants to see and the other be one kinda chick flick styled just dont get yourself in too deep. and dude dont bring her flowers dont give her shyt but a few swallows of your drink
"so do you wanna see (option A) or (option B)"
and make one movie a popular movie everyone wants to see and the other be one kinda chick flick styled just dont get yourself in too deep. and dude dont bring her flowers dont give her shyt but a few swallows of your drink
you're giving her two options and neither of them include answering no and also this displays confidence. dude just do it it's really not a big deal like you think it is. whats a big deal is you never knowing if she did or didnt like you. youll get over her saying no easily.
oh man don't fvcking call her a ray of light! she may be but she'll dump your ass sooner than you know. if you wanna tell her that you need to date her for at least 6 months and just tell you she reminded you of your ray of light shining from heaven and blah blah. if you do it too soon even when you're both saying the L word at first, she'll think your predictable guy under her grasp. take my word for it or don't
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
CrazyandLazy
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So I called her yesterday. She didn't flat out say no or quarrel about why she isn't into "that" movie. She said she had to do something with her friends and if she could get her friends to switch the date then she will come with me on Sat. I told her ok and said I'll call her on Friday again. After that we talked about her friend she brought along last Sunday among other things. It was an ok convo.
Even if she doesn't tag along I will go see it. Oh well, that's life.
Even if she doesn't tag along I will go see it. Oh well, that's life.
you don't "ask" a girl to the movies...
that's a "yes" or "no" questions and you should never give her the opportunity to say no.
you: "have you seen xxx"?
her: "no"
you: "do you want to go see it"
her "yeah sure"
you: "Right. Lets go see it then. I can do Monday or Wednesday night, which is best for you?"
that's a "yes" or "no" questions and you should never give her the opportunity to say no.
you: "have you seen xxx"?
her: "no"
you: "do you want to go see it"
her "yeah sure"
you: "Right. Lets go see it then. I can do Monday or Wednesday night, which is best for you?"
Crazy Asian
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you said you just want this girl as a pal?
i call your bullsh1t sir!
i call your bullsh1t sir!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.