Murk
Master Don Juan
Too risky. We have agreed today to not over think and take it as it comes. She agreed to dial it back but admitted I made her "feel sad". She said there’s not commitment and i can do what I want but just keep her informed of my current feelings on the situation. I told her that’s very mature way of handling it, she said how else could she handle it. I told her it's just my past experiences and not to do with her (mostly true). I'm free to spin the plates I don't want or intend to spin. Saying that, I spoke to the girl who invited me over "saturday after 10pm" - rearranged for this Saturday. I'm supposed to see Black Panther this Saturday with new girl, I'll have to see her Friday and Sunday instead. This is what I enjoy, the game, the variety. I swear my views change day to day, I can't even rely on myself. I like this girl a lot but the thought of banging another secretly is such a turn on.You're the guy who said that his last relationship went badly because he committed when he wasn't ready and cheated like crazy right? Dunno if I'm mixing you up with some other homie, but assuming that's you I'd say the simple solution is to tell her about that
Give just enough detail that she knows you have a quite legitimate reason to believe that rushing into anything way too fast will only screw over both of you, but don't give too much detail that she thinks you're evil or a sex addict.
Well "14 years on and off" piqued my interest, I asked questions. Yes I know, general consensus is not to ask or talk about exs, when will you learn... there are no rules when you have game. We both spoke openly about our exs and what brought us to our current point in life. I have a good memory, it was a 5 min convo, I did a deep dive and extracted what I needed. I do it for a living, don't read too much into it.Is it a giant red flag that you're already an expert on her ex two weeks in?
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