Murk
Master Don Juan
Ok, so you may have read about the girl I met 2 Fridays ago, then went on a date with the next day Saturday evening.
We met up last Thursday, she came to mine, drunk bang, cab home. Friday just gone, I meet her after work for drinks with her work colleagues (girls and gay guys, she's a make-up artist) and she says "let's go back to mine". We go back, I meet her mother briefly, chat, laugh, usual charming self, go upstairs for the bang. We spend all Saturday in bed chilling, kissing, banging, just like old days when you're a kid/early 20s. She looks after me, breakfast 2x, dinner 1x, and does everything, couldn't be more hospitable, also the sex is great and her body is amazing, big ass, nice thighs, slim wait, flat stomach, nice natural boobs, mousy blonde hair, grey/blue eyes. Not even my usual type (brunette/latin looking) but the body is so on point I don't care.
She had been on 3 separate dates the week we met, I'd been on a couple too, but she wants me to not see anyone else and see where we go with this she'll do the same. I agreed. Yes I know, sorry, I was in the moment and was just like... sure why not.
Now, I'm not totally regretting that, but I don't want to lie to her (I'm done lying to girls), I even told her lets take it slow and being exclusive after 8 days was prob a mistake, I stuck to my guns but didn't totally rescind. She said she has never taken a guy back to her mums house since she split up with her ex over a year ago and usually would just go ride the CC at other dudes houses.
She's 29... no doubt looking for a baby soon, her ex was a doctor, they were together on and offer for 14 years so I'm guessing since she was 15 and he 17, so basically stuck with him through the broke student times and 8+ years of uni, then he bounced over a year after they move in together. She can't have too high of a lay count, her reactions to what I had to offer bedroom-wise confirmed this.
I told her I'm fresh out of a relationship and not looking to jump back in, at the same time I do like her company, she smart and makes me laugh, genuinely caring, has her own money.
Sorry for the long post, basically how do I dial this back to a more casual arrangement after a very intense 4 meetings including a great Friday night to Sunday afternoon. Oh she was also on my snapchat story kissing me, had 2 girls pissed off, an ex asking if shes my GF as she's pretty, and a few guys sending approval, shes a solid 8.5.
We met up last Thursday, she came to mine, drunk bang, cab home. Friday just gone, I meet her after work for drinks with her work colleagues (girls and gay guys, she's a make-up artist) and she says "let's go back to mine". We go back, I meet her mother briefly, chat, laugh, usual charming self, go upstairs for the bang. We spend all Saturday in bed chilling, kissing, banging, just like old days when you're a kid/early 20s. She looks after me, breakfast 2x, dinner 1x, and does everything, couldn't be more hospitable, also the sex is great and her body is amazing, big ass, nice thighs, slim wait, flat stomach, nice natural boobs, mousy blonde hair, grey/blue eyes. Not even my usual type (brunette/latin looking) but the body is so on point I don't care.
She had been on 3 separate dates the week we met, I'd been on a couple too, but she wants me to not see anyone else and see where we go with this she'll do the same. I agreed. Yes I know, sorry, I was in the moment and was just like... sure why not.
Now, I'm not totally regretting that, but I don't want to lie to her (I'm done lying to girls), I even told her lets take it slow and being exclusive after 8 days was prob a mistake, I stuck to my guns but didn't totally rescind. She said she has never taken a guy back to her mums house since she split up with her ex over a year ago and usually would just go ride the CC at other dudes houses.
She's 29... no doubt looking for a baby soon, her ex was a doctor, they were together on and offer for 14 years so I'm guessing since she was 15 and he 17, so basically stuck with him through the broke student times and 8+ years of uni, then he bounced over a year after they move in together. She can't have too high of a lay count, her reactions to what I had to offer bedroom-wise confirmed this.
I told her I'm fresh out of a relationship and not looking to jump back in, at the same time I do like her company, she smart and makes me laugh, genuinely caring, has her own money.
Sorry for the long post, basically how do I dial this back to a more casual arrangement after a very intense 4 meetings including a great Friday night to Sunday afternoon. Oh she was also on my snapchat story kissing me, had 2 girls pissed off, an ex asking if shes my GF as she's pretty, and a few guys sending approval, shes a solid 8.5.