“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How do guys get girls while being nice? Here is how

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Zan had perfectly summed up what I wanted to figure out for like 4 years:

A woman will never be offended by your sexual desire for her, as long as it has no presumption. - Zan

THIS. IS. KEY.

Think of a cool guy saying "Wow you are amazing!!" versus a construction worker saying "Nice legs baby!" as she walks by.

You can get away with sooooooo much stuff that people fret over here if you just remember a few key things. This is one of them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oxide said:
Think of a cool guy saying "Wow you are amazing!!" versus a construction worker saying "Nice legs baby!" as she walks by.
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Both of those are charmless. I don't think you should worry too much about 'offending' women. Giving them the frame and all that.

However, if you are recommending having a non-needy, devil-may-care approach to expressing your sexuality, then I agree 100%.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm saying that guys tend to think that you just CAN'T do certain things because well - the girl will just lose interest.

Well what happens is once you get to the point of absolute acceptance as yourself you can get away with murder.

Would a girl turn down Brad Pitt if he was to pay her a compliment? Well become your own Brad Pitt. Here is an excellent question from Zan: "Ask yourself - do women fantasize about me?" If the answer is no, figure out why not and get there.
 
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So here it is: The difference between a genuinely good man who ATTRACTS women and one who ultimately does not is centered around from what position he is coming from in performing his "good guy" behavior. Men who act "nice" from a position of WEAKNESS end up rejected. Men who are in a position of STRENGTH, yet who treat women well often make women so crazy for them that they have more options than they can handle.
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