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Just wondering. What were you searching for? Did you find it?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How Did You Find SoSuave?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
How to get girls. I was in the 9th or 10th grade. I would go to the main page, but it took a while until i found the forum.
navyseal2101
Master Don Juan
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^Same.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
well i was on some s*itty site and some dude recomended this site and said its awesome, just dont believe everything people say on it. its an awesome site though.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
I found this site in 2003. I was actually doing a search for the story of the real Don Juan (THX to AOS book), and ended up here.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
bigjohnson
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Linked here from violentacres.com
Fortunately I'd already figured out what was "wrong" with western society on my own, but I was pleasantly surprised to find a place where a lot of people shared an essentially similar view hung out. Not sure that last is a sentence, but you get the idea.
Fortunately I'd already figured out what was "wrong" with western society on my own, but I was pleasantly surprised to find a place where a lot of people shared an essentially similar view hung out. Not sure that last is a sentence, but you get the idea.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
I was mining the internet trying to find a logo to gleen for a project at work. In a search, SoSuave came up. And with a "who knows, maybe the logo is here somewhere" attitude, I gave it a shot.
Nope - no logo here.
But man how the sun was shining (on a rainy day) when I left work!
Nope - no logo here.
But man how the sun was shining (on a rainy day) when I left work!
Dark Chivalry
Don Juan
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I saw a link on a bodybuiding forum I lurk on.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Kev07
Master Don Juan
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I think It had something to do with Ladder Theory, don't remember though
I was reading an article an a website that linked to the full article on the main sosuave.com which was some writing in 2003 by DocLove? Anyway, I read the main site articles, found the DJ bible and never looked back.. well, I did leave the forums a few times but i've found hanging around keeps me on my toes.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I found several of the seduction gurus' works on the p2p networks, google searched for a couple of the authors, and wound up here.
belividere
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Pretty similar I was trying to find quotes from Castenadas Journey to Ixtalan and this was the first thing to pop up in google. Well I love me some snatch and stumbled upon a like minded community so I figured I'd stay.BlackJackal said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
spesmilitis
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on sherdog.net, there was a huge debate over one of the fighters who left the The ultimate fighter reality show cuz his girlfriend thought he cheated on him. Some guy made a post about how he was *****-whipped and how lots of men aren't acting like men, then he gave the link to friendzoned.com. Awesome place, its like sosuave.net lite. There I found sosuave.net under their reccomended links.
Its been a little over a year since I found sosouve, man, I've changed so much. I'm not sure what I would've been if it weren't for the series of events that led me here.
Its been a little over a year since I found sosouve, man, I've changed so much. I'm not sure what I would've been if it weren't for the series of events that led me here.