"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How Did You Find SoSuave?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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oakraiderz2

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How to get girls. I was in the 9th or 10th grade. I would go to the main page, but it took a while until i found the forum.
 

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I found this site in 2003. I was actually doing a search for the story of the real Don Juan (THX to AOS book), and ended up here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I done a google search for "How to attract women", and landed here back in '03. My other account was banned. :confused:
 

bigjohnson

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Linked here from violentacres.com

Fortunately I'd already figured out what was "wrong" with western society on my own, but I was pleasantly surprised to find a place where a lot of people shared an essentially similar view hung out. Not sure that last is a sentence, but you get the idea.
 

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I was mining the internet trying to find a logo to gleen for a project at work. In a search, SoSuave came up. And with a "who knows, maybe the logo is here somewhere" attitude, I gave it a shot.

Nope - no logo here.

But man how the sun was shining (on a rainy day) when I left work!
 

Phyzzle

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Pretty directly: I was searching for "why do women hate nice guys"?
 

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I saw a link on a bodybuiding forum I lurk on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was reading an article an a website that linked to the full article on the main sosuave.com which was some writing in 2003 by DocLove? Anyway, I read the main site articles, found the DJ bible and never looked back.. well, I did leave the forums a few times but i've found hanging around keeps me on my toes.
 

Bible_Belt

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I found several of the seduction gurus' works on the p2p networks, google searched for a couple of the authors, and wound up here.
 

belividere

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BlackJackal said:
I found this site in 2003. I was actually doing a search for the story of the real Don Juan (THX to AOS book), and ended up here.
Pretty similar I was trying to find quotes from Castenadas Journey to Ixtalan and this was the first thing to pop up in google. Well I love me some snatch and stumbled upon a like minded community so I figured I'd stay.
 

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"Does she like me?" I read the main page, and I think I accidently typed in sosuave.net instead of sosuave.com and saw this. That ***** hates me now. :crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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spesmilitis

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on sherdog.net, there was a huge debate over one of the fighters who left the The ultimate fighter reality show cuz his girlfriend thought he cheated on him. Some guy made a post about how he was *****-whipped and how lots of men aren't acting like men, then he gave the link to friendzoned.com. Awesome place, its like sosuave.net lite. There I found sosuave.net under their reccomended links.

Its been a little over a year since I found sosouve, man, I've changed so much. I'm not sure what I would've been if it weren't for the series of events that led me here.
 
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