"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2

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How to get girls. I was in the 9th or 10th grade. I would go to the main page, but it took a while until i found the forum.
 

BlackJackal

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I found this site in 2003. I was actually doing a search for the story of the real Don Juan (THX to AOS book), and ended up here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MT3

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I done a google search for "How to attract women", and landed here back in '03. My other account was banned. :confused:
 

bigjohnson

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Linked here from violentacres.com

Fortunately I'd already figured out what was "wrong" with western society on my own, but I was pleasantly surprised to find a place where a lot of people shared an essentially similar view hung out. Not sure that last is a sentence, but you get the idea.
 

Vulpine

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I was mining the internet trying to find a logo to gleen for a project at work. In a search, SoSuave came up. And with a "who knows, maybe the logo is here somewhere" attitude, I gave it a shot.

Nope - no logo here.

But man how the sun was shining (on a rainy day) when I left work!
 

Phyzzle

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Pretty directly: I was searching for "why do women hate nice guys"?
 

Dark Chivalry

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I saw a link on a bodybuiding forum I lurk on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Charm

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I was reading an article an a website that linked to the full article on the main sosuave.com which was some writing in 2003 by DocLove? Anyway, I read the main site articles, found the DJ bible and never looked back.. well, I did leave the forums a few times but i've found hanging around keeps me on my toes.
 

Bible_Belt

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I found several of the seduction gurus' works on the p2p networks, google searched for a couple of the authors, and wound up here.
 

belividere

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BlackJackal said:
I found this site in 2003. I was actually doing a search for the story of the real Don Juan (THX to AOS book), and ended up here.
Pretty similar I was trying to find quotes from Castenadas Journey to Ixtalan and this was the first thing to pop up in google. Well I love me some snatch and stumbled upon a like minded community so I figured I'd stay.
 

Bling

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"Does she like me?" I read the main page, and I think I accidently typed in sosuave.net instead of sosuave.com and saw this. That ***** hates me now. :crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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spesmilitis

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on sherdog.net, there was a huge debate over one of the fighters who left the The ultimate fighter reality show cuz his girlfriend thought he cheated on him. Some guy made a post about how he was *****-whipped and how lots of men aren't acting like men, then he gave the link to friendzoned.com. Awesome place, its like sosuave.net lite. There I found sosuave.net under their reccomended links.

Its been a little over a year since I found sosouve, man, I've changed so much. I'm not sure what I would've been if it weren't for the series of events that led me here.
 
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