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Just wondering. What were you searching for? Did you find it?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How Did You Find SoSuave?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
How to get girls. I was in the 9th or 10th grade. I would go to the main page, but it took a while until i found the forum.
navyseal2101
Master Don Juan
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^Same.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
well i was on some s*itty site and some dude recomended this site and said its awesome, just dont believe everything people say on it. its an awesome site though.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
I found this site in 2003. I was actually doing a search for the story of the real Don Juan (THX to AOS book), and ended up here.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
bigjohnson
Master Don Juan
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Linked here from violentacres.com
Fortunately I'd already figured out what was "wrong" with western society on my own, but I was pleasantly surprised to find a place where a lot of people shared an essentially similar view hung out. Not sure that last is a sentence, but you get the idea.
Fortunately I'd already figured out what was "wrong" with western society on my own, but I was pleasantly surprised to find a place where a lot of people shared an essentially similar view hung out. Not sure that last is a sentence, but you get the idea.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
I was mining the internet trying to find a logo to gleen for a project at work. In a search, SoSuave came up. And with a "who knows, maybe the logo is here somewhere" attitude, I gave it a shot.
Nope - no logo here.
But man how the sun was shining (on a rainy day) when I left work!
Nope - no logo here.
But man how the sun was shining (on a rainy day) when I left work!
Dark Chivalry
Don Juan
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I saw a link on a bodybuiding forum I lurk on.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kev07
Master Don Juan
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I think It had something to do with Ladder Theory, don't remember though
I was reading an article an a website that linked to the full article on the main sosuave.com which was some writing in 2003 by DocLove? Anyway, I read the main site articles, found the DJ bible and never looked back.. well, I did leave the forums a few times but i've found hanging around keeps me on my toes.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I found several of the seduction gurus' works on the p2p networks, google searched for a couple of the authors, and wound up here.
belividere
Master Don Juan
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Pretty similar I was trying to find quotes from Castenadas Journey to Ixtalan and this was the first thing to pop up in google. Well I love me some snatch and stumbled upon a like minded community so I figured I'd stay.BlackJackal said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
spesmilitis
Master Don Juan
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on sherdog.net, there was a huge debate over one of the fighters who left the The ultimate fighter reality show cuz his girlfriend thought he cheated on him. Some guy made a post about how he was *****-whipped and how lots of men aren't acting like men, then he gave the link to friendzoned.com. Awesome place, its like sosuave.net lite. There I found sosuave.net under their reccomended links.
Its been a little over a year since I found sosouve, man, I've changed so much. I'm not sure what I would've been if it weren't for the series of events that led me here.
Its been a little over a year since I found sosouve, man, I've changed so much. I'm not sure what I would've been if it weren't for the series of events that led me here.