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Just wondering. What were you searching for? Did you find it?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
How to get girls. I was in the 9th or 10th grade. I would go to the main page, but it took a while until i found the forum.
navyseal2101
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^Same.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
well i was on some s*itty site and some dude recomended this site and said its awesome, just dont believe everything people say on it. its an awesome site though.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
I found this site in 2003. I was actually doing a search for the story of the real Don Juan (THX to AOS book), and ended up here.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
bigjohnson
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Linked here from violentacres.com
Fortunately I'd already figured out what was "wrong" with western society on my own, but I was pleasantly surprised to find a place where a lot of people shared an essentially similar view hung out. Not sure that last is a sentence, but you get the idea.
Fortunately I'd already figured out what was "wrong" with western society on my own, but I was pleasantly surprised to find a place where a lot of people shared an essentially similar view hung out. Not sure that last is a sentence, but you get the idea.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
I was mining the internet trying to find a logo to gleen for a project at work. In a search, SoSuave came up. And with a "who knows, maybe the logo is here somewhere" attitude, I gave it a shot.
Nope - no logo here.
But man how the sun was shining (on a rainy day) when I left work!
Nope - no logo here.
But man how the sun was shining (on a rainy day) when I left work!
Dark Chivalry
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I saw a link on a bodybuiding forum I lurk on.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kev07
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I think It had something to do with Ladder Theory, don't remember though
I was reading an article an a website that linked to the full article on the main sosuave.com which was some writing in 2003 by DocLove? Anyway, I read the main site articles, found the DJ bible and never looked back.. well, I did leave the forums a few times but i've found hanging around keeps me on my toes.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I found several of the seduction gurus' works on the p2p networks, google searched for a couple of the authors, and wound up here.
belividere
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Pretty similar I was trying to find quotes from Castenadas Journey to Ixtalan and this was the first thing to pop up in google. Well I love me some snatch and stumbled upon a like minded community so I figured I'd stay.BlackJackal said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
spesmilitis
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on sherdog.net, there was a huge debate over one of the fighters who left the The ultimate fighter reality show cuz his girlfriend thought he cheated on him. Some guy made a post about how he was *****-whipped and how lots of men aren't acting like men, then he gave the link to friendzoned.com. Awesome place, its like sosuave.net lite. There I found sosuave.net under their reccomended links.
Its been a little over a year since I found sosouve, man, I've changed so much. I'm not sure what I would've been if it weren't for the series of events that led me here.
Its been a little over a year since I found sosouve, man, I've changed so much. I'm not sure what I would've been if it weren't for the series of events that led me here.