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No that was just an example I made up to show ppl how to post it. I actually only had 1 instadate so far.JaegerPilot217 said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How did you become great and how long did it take?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Also when you said you are becoming more comfortable touching girls, specifically how are you touching them? Because I know touching is critical in order to avoid being friend-zoned but it has to be done a certain way so you don't risk sexual harassmentthunder_god said:No that was just an example I made up to show ppl how to post it. I actually only had 1 instadate so far.
thunder_god
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Holding there hands longer, touching them on the shoulder, etc. I also tried the grabbing girls elbows at a pub when it was packed. I found opening with the shoulder touch worked best so far for me.JaegerPilot217 said:Also when you said you are becoming more comfortable touching girls, specifically how are you touching them? Because I know touching is critical in order to avoid being friend-zoned but it has to be done a certain way so you don't risk sexual harassment
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Since this site/forum is mostly about casual sex, I wonder how long it takes to learn how to get a cute pretty girlfriend, actual relationship
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I knew I had arrived with being able to deal with women when I dropped one once because she cut her hair short.
I knew several other girls..........so I became picky
When you ditch them for trivial things, you've arrived
I knew several other girls..........so I became picky
When you ditch them for trivial things, you've arrived
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well a lot has to do with how you feel about your self "confidence" if you feel good and look good your confidence is high and you will have an easier time.
Put emphasis on clothing and fitness.
Don't put Pu$$y on a pedestal.
it sort of became a routine, ever since i was about 18 i just became at ease around females and being straight forward and "****y" also works sometimes.
Just be confident and you should be good.
FYI i have friends that try picking up girls alongside me and most times their attempts are futile.
Everyone is different not everyone can do it.
Put emphasis on clothing and fitness.
Don't put Pu$$y on a pedestal.
it sort of became a routine, ever since i was about 18 i just became at ease around females and being straight forward and "****y" also works sometimes.
Just be confident and you should be good.
FYI i have friends that try picking up girls alongside me and most times their attempts are futile.
Everyone is different not everyone can do it.
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That sounds like a negative mindsetNycbkdude said:Well a lot has to do with how you feel about your self "confidence" if you feel good and look good your confidence is high and you will have an easier time.
Put emphasis on clothing and fitness.
Don't put Pu$$y on a pedestal.
it sort of became a routine, ever since i was about 18 i just became at ease around females and being straight forward and "****y" also works sometimes.
Just be confident and you should be good.
FYI i have friends that try picking up girls alongside me and most times their attempts are futile.
Everyone is different not everyone can do it.