How did you become great and how long did it take?

[thunder_god]

But no second dates?

No that was just an example I made up to show ppl how to post it. I actually only had 1 instadate so far.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

No that was just an example I made up to show ppl how to post it. I actually only had 1 instadate so far.

Also when you said you are becoming more comfortable touching girls, specifically how are you touching them? Because I know touching is critical in order to avoid being friend-zoned but it has to be done a certain way so you don't risk sexual harassment

 

[thunder_god]

Also when you said you are becoming more comfortable touching girls, specifically how are you touching them? Because I know touching is critical in order to avoid being friend-zoned but it has to be done a certain way so you don't risk sexual harassment

Holding there hands longer, touching them on the shoulder, etc. I also tried the grabbing girls elbows at a pub when it was packed. I found opening with the shoulder touch worked best so far for me.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Since this site/forum is mostly about casual sex, I wonder how long it takes to learn how to get a cute pretty girlfriend, actual relationship

 

[Great being a man]

I knew I had arrived with being able to deal with women when I dropped one once because she cut her hair short.

I knew several other girls..........so I became picky

When you ditch them for trivial things, you've arrived

 

[Nycbkdude]

Well a lot has to do with how you feel about your self "confidence" if you feel good and look good your confidence is high and you will have an easier time.
Put emphasis on clothing and fitness.
Don't put Pu$$y on a pedestal.

it sort of became a routine, ever since i was about 18 i just became at ease around females and being straight forward and "****y" also works sometimes.

Just be confident and you should be good.

FYI i have friends that try picking up girls alongside me and most times their attempts are futile.
Everyone is different not everyone can do it.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Well a lot has to do with how you feel about your self "confidence" if you feel good and look good your confidence is high and you will have an easier time.
Put emphasis on clothing and fitness.
Don't put Pu$$y on a pedestal.

it sort of became a routine, ever since i was about 18 i just became at ease around females and being straight forward and "****y" also works sometimes.

Just be confident and you should be good.

FYI i have friends that try picking up girls alongside me and most times their attempts are futile.
Everyone is different not everyone can do it.

That sounds like a negative mindset