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No that was just an example I made up to show ppl how to post it. I actually only had 1 instadate so far.JaegerPilot217 said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How did you become great and how long did it take?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Also when you said you are becoming more comfortable touching girls, specifically how are you touching them? Because I know touching is critical in order to avoid being friend-zoned but it has to be done a certain way so you don't risk sexual harassmentthunder_god said:No that was just an example I made up to show ppl how to post it. I actually only had 1 instadate so far.
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Holding there hands longer, touching them on the shoulder, etc. I also tried the grabbing girls elbows at a pub when it was packed. I found opening with the shoulder touch worked best so far for me.JaegerPilot217 said:Also when you said you are becoming more comfortable touching girls, specifically how are you touching them? Because I know touching is critical in order to avoid being friend-zoned but it has to be done a certain way so you don't risk sexual harassment
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Since this site/forum is mostly about casual sex, I wonder how long it takes to learn how to get a cute pretty girlfriend, actual relationship
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I knew I had arrived with being able to deal with women when I dropped one once because she cut her hair short.
I knew several other girls..........so I became picky
When you ditch them for trivial things, you've arrived
I knew several other girls..........so I became picky
When you ditch them for trivial things, you've arrived
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well a lot has to do with how you feel about your self "confidence" if you feel good and look good your confidence is high and you will have an easier time.
Put emphasis on clothing and fitness.
Don't put Pu$$y on a pedestal.
it sort of became a routine, ever since i was about 18 i just became at ease around females and being straight forward and "****y" also works sometimes.
Just be confident and you should be good.
FYI i have friends that try picking up girls alongside me and most times their attempts are futile.
Everyone is different not everyone can do it.
Put emphasis on clothing and fitness.
Don't put Pu$$y on a pedestal.
it sort of became a routine, ever since i was about 18 i just became at ease around females and being straight forward and "****y" also works sometimes.
Just be confident and you should be good.
FYI i have friends that try picking up girls alongside me and most times their attempts are futile.
Everyone is different not everyone can do it.
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That sounds like a negative mindsetNycbkdude said:Well a lot has to do with how you feel about your self "confidence" if you feel good and look good your confidence is high and you will have an easier time.
Put emphasis on clothing and fitness.
Don't put Pu$$y on a pedestal.
it sort of became a routine, ever since i was about 18 i just became at ease around females and being straight forward and "****y" also works sometimes.
Just be confident and you should be good.
FYI i have friends that try picking up girls alongside me and most times their attempts are futile.
Everyone is different not everyone can do it.