thunder_god
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No that was just an example I made up to show ppl how to post it. I actually only had 1 instadate so far.JaegerPilot217 said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How did you become great and how long did it take?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Also when you said you are becoming more comfortable touching girls, specifically how are you touching them? Because I know touching is critical in order to avoid being friend-zoned but it has to be done a certain way so you don't risk sexual harassmentthunder_god said:No that was just an example I made up to show ppl how to post it. I actually only had 1 instadate so far.
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Holding there hands longer, touching them on the shoulder, etc. I also tried the grabbing girls elbows at a pub when it was packed. I found opening with the shoulder touch worked best so far for me.JaegerPilot217 said:Also when you said you are becoming more comfortable touching girls, specifically how are you touching them? Because I know touching is critical in order to avoid being friend-zoned but it has to be done a certain way so you don't risk sexual harassment
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Since this site/forum is mostly about casual sex, I wonder how long it takes to learn how to get a cute pretty girlfriend, actual relationship
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I knew I had arrived with being able to deal with women when I dropped one once because she cut her hair short.
I knew several other girls..........so I became picky
When you ditch them for trivial things, you've arrived
I knew several other girls..........so I became picky
When you ditch them for trivial things, you've arrived
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well a lot has to do with how you feel about your self "confidence" if you feel good and look good your confidence is high and you will have an easier time.
Put emphasis on clothing and fitness.
Don't put Pu$$y on a pedestal.
it sort of became a routine, ever since i was about 18 i just became at ease around females and being straight forward and "****y" also works sometimes.
Just be confident and you should be good.
FYI i have friends that try picking up girls alongside me and most times their attempts are futile.
Everyone is different not everyone can do it.
Put emphasis on clothing and fitness.
Don't put Pu$$y on a pedestal.
it sort of became a routine, ever since i was about 18 i just became at ease around females and being straight forward and "****y" also works sometimes.
Just be confident and you should be good.
FYI i have friends that try picking up girls alongside me and most times their attempts are futile.
Everyone is different not everyone can do it.
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That sounds like a negative mindsetNycbkdude said:Well a lot has to do with how you feel about your self "confidence" if you feel good and look good your confidence is high and you will have an easier time.
Put emphasis on clothing and fitness.
Don't put Pu$$y on a pedestal.
it sort of became a routine, ever since i was about 18 i just became at ease around females and being straight forward and "****y" also works sometimes.
Just be confident and you should be good.
FYI i have friends that try picking up girls alongside me and most times their attempts are futile.
Everyone is different not everyone can do it.