She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
if this happens too often, it's not good...you should aim to make them comfortable with you...i think comfort is the key.Originally posted by DJnoob
can you guys help make a list of things
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
that's not trueOriginally posted by h2o
just realize that a girl who is truly attracted to you will never approach you...
That is bloody gold.Originally posted by darth yoda
-Be a race that she is afraid of (I get that alot)
I just snorted water out of my nostrils...Originally posted by quest
That is bloody gold.
Mum, today i'm going to <insert race here> and intimidate some girls. I'll be home for dinner.
^^^i need 2 try that cuzz....defenetly....Originally posted by darth yoda
-Look crazy
-Look too good for them (out of their league)
-Be a race that she is afraid of (I get that alot)
-Be really big
-Say things like "a little rape is fun!"
-Randomly shout things out like, "I ain't going back!"
Have fun