I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
if this happens too often, it's not good...you should aim to make them comfortable with you...i think comfort is the key.Originally posted by DJnoob
can you guys help make a list of things
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
that's not trueOriginally posted by h2o
just realize that a girl who is truly attracted to you will never approach you...
That is bloody gold.Originally posted by darth yoda
-Be a race that she is afraid of (I get that alot)
I just snorted water out of my nostrils...Originally posted by quest
That is bloody gold.
Mum, today i'm going to <insert race here> and intimidate some girls. I'll be home for dinner.
^^^i need 2 try that cuzz....defenetly....Originally posted by darth yoda
-Look crazy
-Look too good for them (out of their league)
-Be a race that she is afraid of (I get that alot)
-Be really big
-Say things like "a little rape is fun!"
-Randomly shout things out like, "I ain't going back!"
Have fun