You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How are all homophones ignorant?CCKazi007 said:I don't think the homophobes can understand the essay... Most of them are raised ignorant... Ignorance stems from uneducation and brainwashing...
...let the ignorant homophobes continue to be ignorant they're not going to change cuz most of them are too stupid to comprehend anything and end up having retarded kids. That thought always makes me feel better when I argue with a ignorant douche.
Boo Hoo I asked for him to explain himself. Why does that make me a moron?Hank Rearden said:Because you're a moron. You're narrow minded and like it. So understanding something different turns you into a hardcore xenophobe.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I said "most" not ALL idiot read it again, and thanks for not correcting me or maybe you don't know that I misspelt homophobes.MuayThai said:How are all homophones ignorant?
Please enlighten me, oh great intelligent one. You are quite evidently intellectually above all of these people. You must share your great wealth knowledge and wisdom with the uneducated masses.
1) You'll find that many gay guys actually **** a lot of women. They prefer guys but if there are no guys around and the only thing around is a girl, they'll take that over nothing. Most gay guys I know bang more women than most straight guys I know. Hot man > Hot girl > ugly man > ugly girl > nothing in most gay men's books.Abbott said:1) I've never thought that it can possibly be natural, since homos cannot have children.
2) It can't be genetic, the genes would've died out thousands of years ago, as there's no way to pass them on. Babies need sperm (from a man) and an egg (from a woman).
Nice way to back of a discussion. :crackup:CCKazi007 said:I said "most" not ALL idiot read it again, and thanks for not correcting me or maybe you don't know that I misspelt homophobes.
Did I ever say I'm better than everyone on this board? No you just assumed cuz your an tool. I already mentioned my points so if you wanna be "educated" go read a book.
Bottomline who the f*ck cares gays are people too and it's their personal choice that their gay. Ignorant sh*ts have no right telling them that they can't marry cuz they're gay just cuz it's written in a mythical 2000 year old book called THE BIBLE that marriage is between a man and women. None of the their business, if I was gay and a hardcore christian dude told me I can't marry cuz I'm gay I would kill him.
If you do not, you're risking the possible retardation of their children! Think of the children.CCKazi007 said:let the ignorant homophobes continue to be ignorant they're not going to change cuz most of them are too stupid to comprehend anything and end up having retarded kids.
F*ck children. The world could use an extra 50million abortions a year.MuayThai said:Nice way to back of a discussion. :crackup:
Why not prelect the majority(as you did say "most") of these homophobes and cure them of their ignorance? Your brains and proper reasoning have obviously made you privy to something so esoteric it is above the faculties of the majority here.
If you do not, you're risking the possible retardation of their children! Think of the children.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.