You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How are all homophones ignorant?CCKazi007 said:I don't think the homophobes can understand the essay... Most of them are raised ignorant... Ignorance stems from uneducation and brainwashing...
...let the ignorant homophobes continue to be ignorant they're not going to change cuz most of them are too stupid to comprehend anything and end up having retarded kids. That thought always makes me feel better when I argue with a ignorant douche.
Boo Hoo I asked for him to explain himself. Why does that make me a moron?Hank Rearden said:Because you're a moron. You're narrow minded and like it. So understanding something different turns you into a hardcore xenophobe.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I said "most" not ALL idiot read it again, and thanks for not correcting me or maybe you don't know that I misspelt homophobes.MuayThai said:How are all homophones ignorant?
Please enlighten me, oh great intelligent one. You are quite evidently intellectually above all of these people. You must share your great wealth knowledge and wisdom with the uneducated masses.
1) You'll find that many gay guys actually **** a lot of women. They prefer guys but if there are no guys around and the only thing around is a girl, they'll take that over nothing. Most gay guys I know bang more women than most straight guys I know. Hot man > Hot girl > ugly man > ugly girl > nothing in most gay men's books.Abbott said:1) I've never thought that it can possibly be natural, since homos cannot have children.
2) It can't be genetic, the genes would've died out thousands of years ago, as there's no way to pass them on. Babies need sperm (from a man) and an egg (from a woman).
Nice way to back of a discussion. :crackup:CCKazi007 said:I said "most" not ALL idiot read it again, and thanks for not correcting me or maybe you don't know that I misspelt homophobes.
Did I ever say I'm better than everyone on this board? No you just assumed cuz your an tool. I already mentioned my points so if you wanna be "educated" go read a book.
Bottomline who the f*ck cares gays are people too and it's their personal choice that their gay. Ignorant sh*ts have no right telling them that they can't marry cuz they're gay just cuz it's written in a mythical 2000 year old book called THE BIBLE that marriage is between a man and women. None of the their business, if I was gay and a hardcore christian dude told me I can't marry cuz I'm gay I would kill him.
If you do not, you're risking the possible retardation of their children! Think of the children.CCKazi007 said:let the ignorant homophobes continue to be ignorant they're not going to change cuz most of them are too stupid to comprehend anything and end up having retarded kids.
F*ck children. The world could use an extra 50million abortions a year.MuayThai said:Nice way to back of a discussion. :crackup:
Why not prelect the majority(as you did say "most") of these homophobes and cure them of their ignorance? Your brains and proper reasoning have obviously made you privy to something so esoteric it is above the faculties of the majority here.
If you do not, you're risking the possible retardation of their children! Think of the children.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.