Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How are all homophones ignorant?CCKazi007 said:I don't think the homophobes can understand the essay... Most of them are raised ignorant... Ignorance stems from uneducation and brainwashing...
...let the ignorant homophobes continue to be ignorant they're not going to change cuz most of them are too stupid to comprehend anything and end up having retarded kids. That thought always makes me feel better when I argue with a ignorant douche.
Boo Hoo I asked for him to explain himself. Why does that make me a moron?Hank Rearden said:Because you're a moron. You're narrow minded and like it. So understanding something different turns you into a hardcore xenophobe.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I said "most" not ALL idiot read it again, and thanks for not correcting me or maybe you don't know that I misspelt homophobes.MuayThai said:How are all homophones ignorant?
Please enlighten me, oh great intelligent one. You are quite evidently intellectually above all of these people. You must share your great wealth knowledge and wisdom with the uneducated masses.
1) You'll find that many gay guys actually **** a lot of women. They prefer guys but if there are no guys around and the only thing around is a girl, they'll take that over nothing. Most gay guys I know bang more women than most straight guys I know. Hot man > Hot girl > ugly man > ugly girl > nothing in most gay men's books.Abbott said:1) I've never thought that it can possibly be natural, since homos cannot have children.
2) It can't be genetic, the genes would've died out thousands of years ago, as there's no way to pass them on. Babies need sperm (from a man) and an egg (from a woman).
Nice way to back of a discussion. :crackup:CCKazi007 said:I said "most" not ALL idiot read it again, and thanks for not correcting me or maybe you don't know that I misspelt homophobes.
Did I ever say I'm better than everyone on this board? No you just assumed cuz your an tool. I already mentioned my points so if you wanna be "educated" go read a book.
Bottomline who the f*ck cares gays are people too and it's their personal choice that their gay. Ignorant sh*ts have no right telling them that they can't marry cuz they're gay just cuz it's written in a mythical 2000 year old book called THE BIBLE that marriage is between a man and women. None of the their business, if I was gay and a hardcore christian dude told me I can't marry cuz I'm gay I would kill him.
If you do not, you're risking the possible retardation of their children! Think of the children.CCKazi007 said:let the ignorant homophobes continue to be ignorant they're not going to change cuz most of them are too stupid to comprehend anything and end up having retarded kids.
F*ck children. The world could use an extra 50million abortions a year.MuayThai said:Nice way to back of a discussion. :crackup:
Why not prelect the majority(as you did say "most") of these homophobes and cure them of their ignorance? Your brains and proper reasoning have obviously made you privy to something so esoteric it is above the faculties of the majority here.
If you do not, you're risking the possible retardation of their children! Think of the children.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.