I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How are all homophones ignorant?CCKazi007 said:I don't think the homophobes can understand the essay... Most of them are raised ignorant... Ignorance stems from uneducation and brainwashing...
...let the ignorant homophobes continue to be ignorant they're not going to change cuz most of them are too stupid to comprehend anything and end up having retarded kids. That thought always makes me feel better when I argue with a ignorant douche.
Boo Hoo I asked for him to explain himself. Why does that make me a moron?Hank Rearden said:Because you're a moron. You're narrow minded and like it. So understanding something different turns you into a hardcore xenophobe.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I said "most" not ALL idiot read it again, and thanks for not correcting me or maybe you don't know that I misspelt homophobes.MuayThai said:How are all homophones ignorant?
Please enlighten me, oh great intelligent one. You are quite evidently intellectually above all of these people. You must share your great wealth knowledge and wisdom with the uneducated masses.
1) You'll find that many gay guys actually **** a lot of women. They prefer guys but if there are no guys around and the only thing around is a girl, they'll take that over nothing. Most gay guys I know bang more women than most straight guys I know. Hot man > Hot girl > ugly man > ugly girl > nothing in most gay men's books.Abbott said:1) I've never thought that it can possibly be natural, since homos cannot have children.
2) It can't be genetic, the genes would've died out thousands of years ago, as there's no way to pass them on. Babies need sperm (from a man) and an egg (from a woman).
Nice way to back of a discussion. :crackup:CCKazi007 said:I said "most" not ALL idiot read it again, and thanks for not correcting me or maybe you don't know that I misspelt homophobes.
Did I ever say I'm better than everyone on this board? No you just assumed cuz your an tool. I already mentioned my points so if you wanna be "educated" go read a book.
Bottomline who the f*ck cares gays are people too and it's their personal choice that their gay. Ignorant sh*ts have no right telling them that they can't marry cuz they're gay just cuz it's written in a mythical 2000 year old book called THE BIBLE that marriage is between a man and women. None of the their business, if I was gay and a hardcore christian dude told me I can't marry cuz I'm gay I would kill him.
If you do not, you're risking the possible retardation of their children! Think of the children.CCKazi007 said:let the ignorant homophobes continue to be ignorant they're not going to change cuz most of them are too stupid to comprehend anything and end up having retarded kids.
F*ck children. The world could use an extra 50million abortions a year.MuayThai said:Nice way to back of a discussion. :crackup:
Why not prelect the majority(as you did say "most") of these homophobes and cure them of their ignorance? Your brains and proper reasoning have obviously made you privy to something so esoteric it is above the faculties of the majority here.
If you do not, you're risking the possible retardation of their children! Think of the children.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.