“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hit me with your 2014 To-Do List!

Dan08

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2014 is fast approaching and I want you guys to tell me what is the bare minimum you want to get out of the year. I regularly write myself lists of things I want now, in the future etc and review.
I aim to bring this thread back up in a year's time, so people you'll be accountable!

So here's my 2014 to-do list so far:

1. Take up a martial art. Akidio.
2. Consistent gym sessions. Pack on the muscle.
3. Look into Salsa, find a potential partner.
4. Make/Save enough money to go to Ibiza and/or Tomorrowland
5. Dress better. Buy more shirts/shoes and implement
6. Complete my second year of University with a 1st.
7. Take up Wall Climbing
8. Setup more sound gigs at university
9. Start DJing at least once a week
10. Make more friends/be more social/get more hobbies in my life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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38degrees

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Hi

New too the board

1. DJ bootcamp (starting tomorrow)
2. Build my dream career (set goals, and get my ass in gear)
3. Boxing lessons (looking into it)
4. Salsa lessons (looking into it)
5. Rock climbing (outdoor and indoor) (looking into it)
6. Better wardrobe (I started doing this a few days ago)


I am sure there is more that I am missing. I made a few changes last year, and would like to keep that ball rolling into the new year, cheers :)
 

Chamber36

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1. Hit the gym because working out like hannibal for king is heavy on the joints.
2. Get a license.
3. Go to school, learn to read.
4. Find more *****es.
5. Do a martial art (Tai chi)
6. Maybe do something like salsa
7. Take it easy
 

skinnyguy

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1. Get ripped
2. Make a ton of money
3. Get to the point in which I'm not thinking about women but they are thinking about me.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

NDGUY88

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1. Pass CFA Level 1
2. Create Price/Variance analysis model
3. End dry spell- now over a year.:down:
4. Bench over 300 (now at 270 max), squat over 400 (now at 320 max)
 

Albatross953

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My 2014 to do list...

Ann
Barb
Julie..again
Holly..some more
Sophie..if she breaks NC first
Another six women I haven't met yet

Questions?
 

mustfirstregister

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My 2013 resolution was to have two Fbuddies. I couldn't make it. But I fked two girls. so, I will say 80% resolution completed.

For 2014 I want 3 consistent FBs.
 

Tomo

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only 2 things -

-to not be a push over
-to not pedalize woman

If I can sort those out, everything else will follow.
 

Mr Wright

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2014

- Finish Uni with a degree
- Put on about 4.5kg in muscle
- Get a job to save up to go travelling in 2015
- Get a brand new rotation of 3-4 girls and have ONS in between
- Get a new social circle(preferably with girls in it)
- Continue writing my book
- Continue to remove the bad people from my life


All perfectly achievable and things I am already striving towards.
 

MillionBillionaire

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-$$$$$$$$
- Hit 170 pounds (160 now)
- Meet lots of new people
- 3 hot plates to spin
- $$$$$$$$
- Salsa?
 

Purefilth

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Keep on keeping on.


I don't see why anyone should wait for the new year to start something new. It's just a way to put off doing something you could have Stillrted months ago.

Still, better to have a plan than to plan nothing I suppose.
 

Atom Smasher

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1) Remove myself from the technical end of my main business
2) Develop my secondary business
3) Ramp up my music career (sidelined from a fractured spine)
4) More consistent eating plan, more natural
5) Buy a new house
6) More consistent plate spinning
7) Keep my currently good workout momentum up
8) Find a new sport that won't aggravate my back
 

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1) Get back to being happy by myself
2) Keep going to the gym
3) Keep rock climbing with my friend
4) More salsa lessons
5) Not rely on anyone for my happiness
6) Maybe start to save for a 3rd house
7) Do what ever the hell I want to do
8) No more standing on the side lines!


Side note it's cool to see others getting into Salsa, when I was at a club the other day the dance floor was ALL latin girls, about 30 of them and 1 guy. All the guys were standing there watching so in I went. I don't care if I am not good I am out there having fun while others stand on the side lines.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

TheGambino

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2014

1. Cut to less then 15 bodyfat %
2. Spent €1000 on a stylish wardrobe
3. Save money for a trip to Brazil and Sweden. Love the women over these 2 countries. I got more with the latinas so def going for Brazil first.
4. Complete my Minor
5. BE POSITIVE with everything I do
 

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1) skydiving certificate
2) network outside of my company
3) stop depending socially on AFC friends to forget the AFC part of me
4) take up kickboxing and swim more

I think women shouldn't be on these lists if it's true what they say here that women are not the goal and they will come to you once you develop to your full potential
 

rushing dude 123

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hmmm good post! very well I am in.

2014

1. Run and swim 2 times a week at least
2. Be 8% body fat (going have to make sure I stay strong at christmas)
3. Increase my socialising & leadership skills further more
4. Get back into martial arts and pick 2 to train wrestling/boxing/BJJ/Muay thai
5. Be really good at one of the following Salsa/Tango/Samba
6. Start my own Business
7. learn Spanish to a decent level (Probs the hardest one ughh)
8. Get in touch with my good friends I have not contacted lately and ditch bad friends
9. Most importantly have FUN!!!!
 

TheCWord

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1. Find a woman to attach my self-worth to
2. Text her every five minutes
3. Give up on my own dreams to focus on girl
4. Ask SoSuave if girl posting craigslist casual encounters ad seeking "big black c*ck" is a red flag
 
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