"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hit me with your 2014 To-Do List!

Dan08

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2014 is fast approaching and I want you guys to tell me what is the bare minimum you want to get out of the year. I regularly write myself lists of things I want now, in the future etc and review.
I aim to bring this thread back up in a year's time, so people you'll be accountable!

So here's my 2014 to-do list so far:

1. Take up a martial art. Akidio.
2. Consistent gym sessions. Pack on the muscle.
3. Look into Salsa, find a potential partner.
4. Make/Save enough money to go to Ibiza and/or Tomorrowland
5. Dress better. Buy more shirts/shoes and implement
6. Complete my second year of University with a 1st.
7. Take up Wall Climbing
8. Setup more sound gigs at university
9. Start DJing at least once a week
10. Make more friends/be more social/get more hobbies in my life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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38degrees

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Hi

New too the board

1. DJ bootcamp (starting tomorrow)
2. Build my dream career (set goals, and get my ass in gear)
3. Boxing lessons (looking into it)
4. Salsa lessons (looking into it)
5. Rock climbing (outdoor and indoor) (looking into it)
6. Better wardrobe (I started doing this a few days ago)


I am sure there is more that I am missing. I made a few changes last year, and would like to keep that ball rolling into the new year, cheers :)
 

Chamber36

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1. Hit the gym because working out like hannibal for king is heavy on the joints.
2. Get a license.
3. Go to school, learn to read.
4. Find more *****es.
5. Do a martial art (Tai chi)
6. Maybe do something like salsa
7. Take it easy
 

skinnyguy

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1. Get ripped
2. Make a ton of money
3. Get to the point in which I'm not thinking about women but they are thinking about me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NDGUY88

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1. Pass CFA Level 1
2. Create Price/Variance analysis model
3. End dry spell- now over a year.:down:
4. Bench over 300 (now at 270 max), squat over 400 (now at 320 max)
 

Albatross953

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My 2014 to do list...

Ann
Barb
Julie..again
Holly..some more
Sophie..if she breaks NC first
Another six women I haven't met yet

Questions?
 

mustfirstregister

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My 2013 resolution was to have two Fbuddies. I couldn't make it. But I fked two girls. so, I will say 80% resolution completed.

For 2014 I want 3 consistent FBs.
 

Tomo

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only 2 things -

-to not be a push over
-to not pedalize woman

If I can sort those out, everything else will follow.
 

Mr Wright

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2014

- Finish Uni with a degree
- Put on about 4.5kg in muscle
- Get a job to save up to go travelling in 2015
- Get a brand new rotation of 3-4 girls and have ONS in between
- Get a new social circle(preferably with girls in it)
- Continue writing my book
- Continue to remove the bad people from my life


All perfectly achievable and things I am already striving towards.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MillionBillionaire

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-$$$$$$$$
- Hit 170 pounds (160 now)
- Meet lots of new people
- 3 hot plates to spin
- $$$$$$$$
- Salsa?
 

Purefilth

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Keep on keeping on.


I don't see why anyone should wait for the new year to start something new. It's just a way to put off doing something you could have Stillrted months ago.

Still, better to have a plan than to plan nothing I suppose.
 

Atom Smasher

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1) Remove myself from the technical end of my main business
2) Develop my secondary business
3) Ramp up my music career (sidelined from a fractured spine)
4) More consistent eating plan, more natural
5) Buy a new house
6) More consistent plate spinning
7) Keep my currently good workout momentum up
8) Find a new sport that won't aggravate my back
 

Groverz

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1) Get back to being happy by myself
2) Keep going to the gym
3) Keep rock climbing with my friend
4) More salsa lessons
5) Not rely on anyone for my happiness
6) Maybe start to save for a 3rd house
7) Do what ever the hell I want to do
8) No more standing on the side lines!


Side note it's cool to see others getting into Salsa, when I was at a club the other day the dance floor was ALL latin girls, about 30 of them and 1 guy. All the guys were standing there watching so in I went. I don't care if I am not good I am out there having fun while others stand on the side lines.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheGambino

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2014

1. Cut to less then 15 bodyfat %
2. Spent €1000 on a stylish wardrobe
3. Save money for a trip to Brazil and Sweden. Love the women over these 2 countries. I got more with the latinas so def going for Brazil first.
4. Complete my Minor
5. BE POSITIVE with everything I do
 

Odisseo

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1) skydiving certificate
2) network outside of my company
3) stop depending socially on AFC friends to forget the AFC part of me
4) take up kickboxing and swim more

I think women shouldn't be on these lists if it's true what they say here that women are not the goal and they will come to you once you develop to your full potential
 

rushing dude 123

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hmmm good post! very well I am in.

2014

1. Run and swim 2 times a week at least
2. Be 8% body fat (going have to make sure I stay strong at christmas)
3. Increase my socialising & leadership skills further more
4. Get back into martial arts and pick 2 to train wrestling/boxing/BJJ/Muay thai
5. Be really good at one of the following Salsa/Tango/Samba
6. Start my own Business
7. learn Spanish to a decent level (Probs the hardest one ughh)
8. Get in touch with my good friends I have not contacted lately and ditch bad friends
9. Most importantly have FUN!!!!
 

TheCWord

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1. Find a woman to attach my self-worth to
2. Text her every five minutes
3. Give up on my own dreams to focus on girl
4. Ask SoSuave if girl posting craigslist casual encounters ad seeking "big black c*ck" is a red flag
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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