"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp Bonus Challenge: Hold Your Fire!

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It's not my week and I couldn't care less.

This is a bonus challenge for those of you who want to above and beyond. It's for those of you who want that extra push, that little extra, that a lot extra.

This challenge is valid until the end of the bootcamp (10 or so weeks!).

For the next 10 weeks, you will not masturbate.

Yes! 10 whole weeks! Now I understand some of you mere mortals may not be able to hold that long, so I propose this - the poster who has the longest "no wank" period over the next 10 weeks will be crowned "the winner"!

Some of you will cry "Foul play! There is nothing wrong with masturbating!"
Really? Hold your fire over the next 10 weeks and watch how your game improves.

You don't have to do it anyway. It is a bonus challenge, after all.

But why not do it?

You scared?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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YEAH! :)
But damn, I just did yesterday, and the day before, and the day before...

It will help me for sure. I will try! If I masturbate, well too bad. I'll start over again. Hope this doesn't happen lol.

Good luck peepz
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I agree with above. After the seventh day I Aldi notice a decrease in my sex drive. However the less i masturbate the less I am inside my head and Think more about things. Therefore I'd rather go without masturbation. Currently I am on my 11 day of no mb. I am not as desperate as the couple of days after I have masturbated and chick can sense that. Atleast for what I have experienced.
 
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To those who do it once a week, I say to each his own.

But the majority of posters could use an abstinence this long. More motivation for the bootcamp! ;)
 
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LOL... does it cound if i haven't masturbated already for the last two weeks? because i haven't any time to do it... but damn 10 weeks... that's really long... even now I'm horny as hell and to think that I should hold on for another 8 weeks... well... I guess... challenge accepted... :rockon:
 
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If you get laid or have a wet dream, doesn't count.

Leechblock is a great firefox add-on if you need to block some, er, special sites.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sleep on your back. Hands in your pockets if you must.
 
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The Libertine

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I haven't done it since the last time I posted. I touch myself out of boredom,and with school starting at 7:30 in the morning I'm now too tired to do it. I may be able to hold of until next week when I expect to fornicate ( I love that word) .
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Failed a couple times :(

(For those of you who give a **** (no one) I think I have an actual problem with this addiction. I think it's also reflective of my problems with my sex life in general, and the reason I'm here. I have begun meditating on my root chakra throughout my day. I'll let you know how it works out.)
 
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I didn't do it.... and honestly I feel like crap lately.... especialy after today. I thought that if things keep going on likr they did... I would never give a sh** anymore ever again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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