"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp Bonus Challenge: Hold Your Fire!

Amo

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It's not my week and I couldn't care less.

This is a bonus challenge for those of you who want to above and beyond. It's for those of you who want that extra push, that little extra, that a lot extra.

This challenge is valid until the end of the bootcamp (10 or so weeks!).

For the next 10 weeks, you will not masturbate.

Yes! 10 whole weeks! Now I understand some of you mere mortals may not be able to hold that long, so I propose this - the poster who has the longest "no wank" period over the next 10 weeks will be crowned "the winner"!

Some of you will cry "Foul play! There is nothing wrong with masturbating!"
Really? Hold your fire over the next 10 weeks and watch how your game improves.

You don't have to do it anyway. It is a bonus challenge, after all.

But why not do it?

You scared?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mindgamez

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YEAH! :)
But damn, I just did yesterday, and the day before, and the day before...

It will help me for sure. I will try! If I masturbate, well too bad. I'll start over again. Hope this doesn't happen lol.

Good luck peepz
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Luke

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I agree with above. After the seventh day I Aldi notice a decrease in my sex drive. However the less i masturbate the less I am inside my head and Think more about things. Therefore I'd rather go without masturbation. Currently I am on my 11 day of no mb. I am not as desperate as the couple of days after I have masturbated and chick can sense that. Atleast for what I have experienced.
 

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To those who do it once a week, I say to each his own.

But the majority of posters could use an abstinence this long. More motivation for the bootcamp! ;)
 

NobodyCares1

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LOL... does it cound if i haven't masturbated already for the last two weeks? because i haven't any time to do it... but damn 10 weeks... that's really long... even now I'm horny as hell and to think that I should hold on for another 8 weeks... well... I guess... challenge accepted... :rockon:
 

Amo

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If you get laid or have a wet dream, doesn't count.

Leechblock is a great firefox add-on if you need to block some, er, special sites.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Amo

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Sleep on your back. Hands in your pockets if you must.
 

The Libertine

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I haven't done it since the last time I posted. I touch myself out of boredom,and with school starting at 7:30 in the morning I'm now too tired to do it. I may be able to hold of until next week when I expect to fornicate ( I love that word) .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LearningSlowly

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Failed a couple times :(

(For those of you who give a **** (no one) I think I have an actual problem with this addiction. I think it's also reflective of my problems with my sex life in general, and the reason I'm here. I have begun meditating on my root chakra throughout my day. I'll let you know how it works out.)
 

Pozitron

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I didn't do it.... and honestly I feel like crap lately.... especialy after today. I thought that if things keep going on likr they did... I would never give a sh** anymore ever again.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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