"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp Bonus Challenge: Hold Your Fire!

Amo

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It's not my week and I couldn't care less.

This is a bonus challenge for those of you who want to above and beyond. It's for those of you who want that extra push, that little extra, that a lot extra.

This challenge is valid until the end of the bootcamp (10 or so weeks!).

For the next 10 weeks, you will not masturbate.

Yes! 10 whole weeks! Now I understand some of you mere mortals may not be able to hold that long, so I propose this - the poster who has the longest "no wank" period over the next 10 weeks will be crowned "the winner"!

Some of you will cry "Foul play! There is nothing wrong with masturbating!"
Really? Hold your fire over the next 10 weeks and watch how your game improves.

You don't have to do it anyway. It is a bonus challenge, after all.

But why not do it?

You scared?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mindgamez

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YEAH! :)
But damn, I just did yesterday, and the day before, and the day before...

It will help me for sure. I will try! If I masturbate, well too bad. I'll start over again. Hope this doesn't happen lol.

Good luck peepz
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Luke

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I agree with above. After the seventh day I Aldi notice a decrease in my sex drive. However the less i masturbate the less I am inside my head and Think more about things. Therefore I'd rather go without masturbation. Currently I am on my 11 day of no mb. I am not as desperate as the couple of days after I have masturbated and chick can sense that. Atleast for what I have experienced.
 

Amo

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To those who do it once a week, I say to each his own.

But the majority of posters could use an abstinence this long. More motivation for the bootcamp! ;)
 

NobodyCares1

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LOL... does it cound if i haven't masturbated already for the last two weeks? because i haven't any time to do it... but damn 10 weeks... that's really long... even now I'm horny as hell and to think that I should hold on for another 8 weeks... well... I guess... challenge accepted... :rockon:
 

Amo

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If you get laid or have a wet dream, doesn't count.

Leechblock is a great firefox add-on if you need to block some, er, special sites.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Amo

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Sleep on your back. Hands in your pockets if you must.
 

The Libertine

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I haven't done it since the last time I posted. I touch myself out of boredom,and with school starting at 7:30 in the morning I'm now too tired to do it. I may be able to hold of until next week when I expect to fornicate ( I love that word) .
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LearningSlowly

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Failed a couple times :(

(For those of you who give a **** (no one) I think I have an actual problem with this addiction. I think it's also reflective of my problems with my sex life in general, and the reason I'm here. I have begun meditating on my root chakra throughout my day. I'll let you know how it works out.)
 

Pozitron

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I didn't do it.... and honestly I feel like crap lately.... especialy after today. I thought that if things keep going on likr they did... I would never give a sh** anymore ever again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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