"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp Bonus Challenge: Hold Your Fire!

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It's not my week and I couldn't care less.

This is a bonus challenge for those of you who want to above and beyond. It's for those of you who want that extra push, that little extra, that a lot extra.

This challenge is valid until the end of the bootcamp (10 or so weeks!).

For the next 10 weeks, you will not masturbate.

Yes! 10 whole weeks! Now I understand some of you mere mortals may not be able to hold that long, so I propose this - the poster who has the longest "no wank" period over the next 10 weeks will be crowned "the winner"!

Some of you will cry "Foul play! There is nothing wrong with masturbating!"
Really? Hold your fire over the next 10 weeks and watch how your game improves.

You don't have to do it anyway. It is a bonus challenge, after all.

But why not do it?

You scared?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mindgamez

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YEAH! :)
But damn, I just did yesterday, and the day before, and the day before...

It will help me for sure. I will try! If I masturbate, well too bad. I'll start over again. Hope this doesn't happen lol.

Good luck peepz
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I agree with above. After the seventh day I Aldi notice a decrease in my sex drive. However the less i masturbate the less I am inside my head and Think more about things. Therefore I'd rather go without masturbation. Currently I am on my 11 day of no mb. I am not as desperate as the couple of days after I have masturbated and chick can sense that. Atleast for what I have experienced.
 
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To those who do it once a week, I say to each his own.

But the majority of posters could use an abstinence this long. More motivation for the bootcamp! ;)
 
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LOL... does it cound if i haven't masturbated already for the last two weeks? because i haven't any time to do it... but damn 10 weeks... that's really long... even now I'm horny as hell and to think that I should hold on for another 8 weeks... well... I guess... challenge accepted... :rockon:
 
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If you get laid or have a wet dream, doesn't count.

Leechblock is a great firefox add-on if you need to block some, er, special sites.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sleep on your back. Hands in your pockets if you must.
 
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I haven't done it since the last time I posted. I touch myself out of boredom,and with school starting at 7:30 in the morning I'm now too tired to do it. I may be able to hold of until next week when I expect to fornicate ( I love that word) .
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Failed a couple times :(

(For those of you who give a **** (no one) I think I have an actual problem with this addiction. I think it's also reflective of my problems with my sex life in general, and the reason I'm here. I have begun meditating on my root chakra throughout my day. I'll let you know how it works out.)
 
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I didn't do it.... and honestly I feel like crap lately.... especialy after today. I thought that if things keep going on likr they did... I would never give a sh** anymore ever again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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