"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp Bonus Challenge: Hold Your Fire!

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It's not my week and I couldn't care less.

This is a bonus challenge for those of you who want to above and beyond. It's for those of you who want that extra push, that little extra, that a lot extra.

This challenge is valid until the end of the bootcamp (10 or so weeks!).

For the next 10 weeks, you will not masturbate.

Yes! 10 whole weeks! Now I understand some of you mere mortals may not be able to hold that long, so I propose this - the poster who has the longest "no wank" period over the next 10 weeks will be crowned "the winner"!

Some of you will cry "Foul play! There is nothing wrong with masturbating!"
Really? Hold your fire over the next 10 weeks and watch how your game improves.

You don't have to do it anyway. It is a bonus challenge, after all.

But why not do it?

You scared?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mindgamez

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YEAH! :)
But damn, I just did yesterday, and the day before, and the day before...

It will help me for sure. I will try! If I masturbate, well too bad. I'll start over again. Hope this doesn't happen lol.

Good luck peepz
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I agree with above. After the seventh day I Aldi notice a decrease in my sex drive. However the less i masturbate the less I am inside my head and Think more about things. Therefore I'd rather go without masturbation. Currently I am on my 11 day of no mb. I am not as desperate as the couple of days after I have masturbated and chick can sense that. Atleast for what I have experienced.
 
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To those who do it once a week, I say to each his own.

But the majority of posters could use an abstinence this long. More motivation for the bootcamp! ;)
 
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LOL... does it cound if i haven't masturbated already for the last two weeks? because i haven't any time to do it... but damn 10 weeks... that's really long... even now I'm horny as hell and to think that I should hold on for another 8 weeks... well... I guess... challenge accepted... :rockon:
 
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If you get laid or have a wet dream, doesn't count.

Leechblock is a great firefox add-on if you need to block some, er, special sites.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sleep on your back. Hands in your pockets if you must.
 
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I haven't done it since the last time I posted. I touch myself out of boredom,and with school starting at 7:30 in the morning I'm now too tired to do it. I may be able to hold of until next week when I expect to fornicate ( I love that word) .
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Failed a couple times :(

(For those of you who give a **** (no one) I think I have an actual problem with this addiction. I think it's also reflective of my problems with my sex life in general, and the reason I'm here. I have begun meditating on my root chakra throughout my day. I'll let you know how it works out.)
 
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I didn't do it.... and honestly I feel like crap lately.... especialy after today. I thought that if things keep going on likr they did... I would never give a sh** anymore ever again.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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