“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hey, could you guys help me out with something?

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right, I'm starting to improve myself, already joined a rugby team which has boosted my social circle and my confidence. But there's one thing I been pondering on for a while now.

I want to stop talking so much and be a cooler person as part of my self improvement programme. Could someone give me advice tips or their opinions on this?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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What's your definition of "cool?"
 

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I'm going to make a guess. Alpha male cool. Cool like coach, or cop.


Once you learn to observe the hidden language, you will understand it, and adjust things you say - both verbally and otherwise - to be dominant. Get rid of all the stuff that makes you beta male.


Have a look at this.
 
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I mean cool as in all the kids in my school look at me and think 'he's safe as **** man. wanna be like him and wanna be around him all the time' Like everyone likes me and wants to talk to me and all that stuff. Im 14 and in senior school btw.
 

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BenPW-DJNewbie said:
I mean cool as in all the kids in my school look at me and think 'he's safe as **** man. wanna be like him and wanna be around him all the time' Like everyone likes me and wants to talk to me and all that stuff. Im 14 and in senior school btw.
But why do people want to be around him, why do they feel that he's safe? You're going to remain confused until you can understand the "why's."
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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because he/they are are cool, and play sports, and when they are with him, they look good too.
 

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BenPW-DJNewbie said:
because he/they are are cool, and play sports, and when they are with him, they look good too.
Is it as simple as just playing sports and looking good? Is that all that you'll need to do?
 

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It's just the aura they have...

I've tried to unlock the "why" too...unsuccessfully, as of now.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I've read them before, they have nothing to do with popularity and attracting alot of people, men and women, to you and make people want to be around you more.
 
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I am confident in myself, but doesn't make people want to be around me.
 

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Are you saying that people DONT want to be around you? Or are you saying you want MORE people to hang around you?

What is your personality like? Do you make eye contact with everyone? What's your wardrobe like? Do you play any sports?

If you want to be cool then make some damn friends and make sure to show up to all the parties..........I think thats the kinda "cool" you're looking for.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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it is. but a few things about me, lots of people hang around me, but I'm not popular like I want to be. I want more people to hang around with me. I make eye contact with most people. I have a decent wardrobe, with sport joggers and various coloured t shirts, jeans, hoody, jumper etc. I play basketball, football and rugby, and im in a rugby team
 

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and post the conversation here so that others that may have this same problem may learn something
 
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thanks to wolf who has given me the tips I need to progress and in my self improvement. Thanks to everyone who contributed.
 

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So are we now going to see a carbon copy of Wolf?
 
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