I derailed ur egoless train and there was no survivors there.Spaz, If you feel a need to belittle in a discussion, then you are feeling threatened, as then the need to belittle could not be.
No need to be defensiveness with me if your point is logical.
Remember, the argument is how to “effectively lead.” As any one can lead ineffectively and people will follow simply by a change of state.
In your post, you state to effectively lead is for people to feel empowered around you. However, just making them FEEL empowered without actually empowering them is a recipe for disaster, a snake oil salesman if you will. Where will their loyalty be when they realize their feelings of empowerment leave them unempowered?
If you meant to actually empower emotionally, psychologically, and financially (if a business), how does to empower differ from giving value and serving their needs (Points 1 and 2 in Post 79)?
Be specific.
Then you entered in this thread emotionally upset and in ur emotional meltdowns you acted all feminine like, which others saw 1st hand.
It's not me who feels threatened.
In fact, it's me welcoming you into my sphere.
U need more training buddy.