Leading a girl from bar to bar? Holy crap we are really getting low. Yeah that’s a man I would follow into life or death.
No wonder women say men are stupid.
You started and titled this thread by discussing how women turn feminine and follow masculine men who lead. Was that low, too? Now you are shifting it to whom you would follow in life and death situations.
You've made some good points, but my opinion is that leadership can be learned and applied. Some men are naturals at it but that doesn't doom everyone else.
And I don't think it's equal to competency. A lot of brilliant scientists are competent. Henry Cavendish was, and he was so socially awkward he couldn't speak directly to anyone, not even his housekeeper.
On the other hand, a person can be placed in a leadership position and be thoroughly incompetent; I have firsthand experience with this sort of thing.
On top of all of that, a man can be a leader in the boardroom, a field general, a director, a coach, whatever, and he can be competent in leadership AND his trade, but still be terrible with women.
Look at General Petraeus. Five-star General and Director of the CIA. The man was dumped by his mistress and suffered an extended case of Oneitis the likes of which you don't even see on Sosuave. He sent literally thousands of emails to her over the course of several months, some of them sexually explicit from his work account, trying to get her back.
This man was a leader of coalition forces in Iraq. That's life or death. In the sexual marketplace, Petraeus is a Beta with a capital B. He led thousands of men into battle, but I doubt very much he could lead a girl from bar to bar. He couldn't even lead HIMSELF out of self-sabotage over puśśy.