GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
You're obviously being sarcastic lol and my instinct tells me I messed that one up but it's whatever I just remember on not making the same mistake again.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Her getting a better offer is the same thing as her not being into you
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
I also sometimes by saying certain things neg or pos wif there's a week that I've planned and exchange number with 3+ chicks 1-2 weeks... Im gonna have to stop the neg cause that just aint doing nothing....I think if it's positive the whole timeup to first date that's the only way shell want to get her azz up and meet
sexymanman
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there's only so much time in a day.
if the girl wants money and can get it off a guy who she hangs out with guess what shes hanging out with him and probably ****ing him to get it and not you.
if the girl wants money and can get it off a guy who she hangs out with guess what shes hanging out with him and probably ****ing him to get it and not you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Now adays they wont even fvck the money guy. Just use him and give the puzzy to someone more on their wavelength.
Yep! And stupid money guy thinks he has her all to himself. It would amaze most guys here how many guys most women are playing at one time. And you’d be even more amazed at how none of the guys know about one another.lol
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ha I doubt its the case nowadays, most are dumb enough to "share" just so to try to win the girl over
Mike32ct
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“Her getting a better offer” = cope.
It’s a pointless way to look at it anyway. You probably won’t know who her other “offer” was, and you won’t necessarily know for sure if that offer was “better.”
She’s not interested. Assuming she is/was single, you just aren’t her type. That’s all.
It’s a pointless way to look at it anyway. You probably won’t know who her other “offer” was, and you won’t necessarily know for sure if that offer was “better.”
She’s not interested. Assuming she is/was single, you just aren’t her type. That’s all.
Focal core
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And proud to have you, many guys beat around the bushes searching for scientific reason blaming women hypergamy and so on while she's not that into you.. Period.. Duh
And don’t let not being her type get to you. Most women are ****ty pickers when it comes to men, they’ll pass over a guy with a lot going for him for a bum. Seen it hundreds of times. With some women you take it as a compliment she didn’t pick you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Wasting time on female(s) who dont desires you kills your sexual swag and attractiveness.
Alternatively even one babe whose into you who sexes and loves you good raises your sexual swag and attractiveness to ALL women who are attracted to a man like you.
Sex starved and being beat down or fed a ton of NON sexual attention would make no one desire you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.