GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
You're obviously being sarcastic lol and my instinct tells me I messed that one up but it's whatever I just remember on not making the same mistake again.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Her getting a better offer is the same thing as her not being into you
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
I also sometimes by saying certain things neg or pos wif there's a week that I've planned and exchange number with 3+ chicks 1-2 weeks... Im gonna have to stop the neg cause that just aint doing nothing....I think if it's positive the whole timeup to first date that's the only way shell want to get her azz up and meet
sexymanman
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there's only so much time in a day.
if the girl wants money and can get it off a guy who she hangs out with guess what shes hanging out with him and probably ****ing him to get it and not you.
if the girl wants money and can get it off a guy who she hangs out with guess what shes hanging out with him and probably ****ing him to get it and not you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Now adays they wont even fvck the money guy. Just use him and give the puzzy to someone more on their wavelength.
Yep! And stupid money guy thinks he has her all to himself. It would amaze most guys here how many guys most women are playing at one time. And you’d be even more amazed at how none of the guys know about one another.lol
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ha I doubt its the case nowadays, most are dumb enough to "share" just so to try to win the girl over
Mike32ct
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“Her getting a better offer” = cope.
It’s a pointless way to look at it anyway. You probably won’t know who her other “offer” was, and you won’t necessarily know for sure if that offer was “better.”
She’s not interested. Assuming she is/was single, you just aren’t her type. That’s all.
It’s a pointless way to look at it anyway. You probably won’t know who her other “offer” was, and you won’t necessarily know for sure if that offer was “better.”
She’s not interested. Assuming she is/was single, you just aren’t her type. That’s all.
Focal core
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And proud to have you, many guys beat around the bushes searching for scientific reason blaming women hypergamy and so on while she's not that into you.. Period.. Duh
And don’t let not being her type get to you. Most women are ****ty pickers when it comes to men, they’ll pass over a guy with a lot going for him for a bum. Seen it hundreds of times. With some women you take it as a compliment she didn’t pick you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Wasting time on female(s) who dont desires you kills your sexual swag and attractiveness.
Alternatively even one babe whose into you who sexes and loves you good raises your sexual swag and attractiveness to ALL women who are attracted to a man like you.
Sex starved and being beat down or fed a ton of NON sexual attention would make no one desire you.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.