"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jlr12584

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i dont know what it is about me. i feel so unattractive as a guy. i have some good looking friends and we went to the club and the girls pulled both of them on the dance floor and grinded with them, leaving me alone. i feel like i dont have the ability to sexually attract any women and its depressing. i asked this other girl on a date and she went but she wont touch me at all. maybe im just an ugly guy. anyways heres a picture of me to rag on. http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v627/jlr12584/?action=view&current=Picture1.jpg.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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rocky_mtn

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please rephase you post only using positives, remove all negatives.


When they all hit the dance dance floor, thats you cue to follow, just repeat what she does if you don't know how to dance. Act and dance goofy and the chicks will laugh. Put one of your hands on the side of her hip at the waist put your other arm in the air and start shaking it. :rockon:

I won't comment on your pic, but you should have no problems with women,
READ the DJ BIBLE and work the program. It is all about confidence.
 

mikak

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dude u not ugly at all, are u serious???? coz even my cousin, she thinks u cute, may be work-out !!
 

jlr12584

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i have plenty problems getting a girl. no matter how funny or outgoing i am, it doesnt do anything.
 

realsmoothie

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Well, you're not ugly, so get over that part.

Must be something else. Your confidence sure sucks, and girls are confidence-detectors.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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t00dumb

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realsmoothie said:
Well, you're not ugly, so get over that part.

Must be something else. Your confidence sure sucks, and girls are confidence-detectors.
same, trust me confidence goes a long way. you have to have the mindset of a true dj 24/7 no matter where you go. confidence 24/7. we can't keep saying this over and over, women loves a man with confidence (not fake) and you will love yourself more for that.
 
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