i dont know what it is about me. i feel so unattractive as a guy. i have some good looking friends and we went to the club and the girls pulled both of them on the dance floor and grinded with them, leaving me alone. i feel like i dont have the ability to sexually attract any women and its depressing. i asked this other girl on a date and she went but she wont touch me at all. maybe im just an ugly guy. anyways heres a picture of me to rag on. http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v627/jlr12584/?action=view¤t=Picture1.jpg.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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